how do i explain my situation to my new girl

[arnoldku]

So i have been seeing this girl for awhile and last week we one thing led to another and everything was leading towards having sex...i had an erection but when i went to put a condom on i completely lost my boner. needless to say it was super embarrassing for the both of us. that experience lead me to research everything i could about porn induced erectile dysfunction and i do believe that i am suffering from the condition. Soo i have quit porn and masturbation cold turkey. The problem is that tonight we were making out and i could tell that she wanted to have sex but i think i was so nervous about getting it up i just couldn't do it. i feel terrible because she thinks its something wrong with her but i dont know how to tell her that its not her its because my brain is fucked up...any thoughts on how i explain my situation to her would be much appreciated

 

[OSS]

The theme of this podcast is fugu and his girlfriend discussing fugu opening up to her about it: https://soundcloud.com/yourbrainrebalancedshow/your-brain-rebalanced-radioshow-episode-5-rebooting-with-a-partner-w-special-guest-fugus-gf

I would also consider showing her a video and then afterwards relating the video to yourself and discussing your personal situation. 3 videos I have in mind, youtube these: "great porn experiment", "noah church a story of porn addiction", "rebootnation gabes story"

Goodluck