Paul MuadDib
New Member
I'm 28 years old and have been PMO'ing heavily for 10 years at least. Sometimes spending most of the day edging up to 3 hours. Often on drugs, mostly pot.
Always looking for new and better stuff.
Never had a girlfriend and neither sex.
Over the last 2 years I found interest in anal play and gay sex. I met a few guys, had some unsatisfying and unpleasant sex but also some satisfying dates.
But I only had O when I MO'd while giving BJ or receiving anal.
Last week I had a threesome with a guy I knew and a girl. I was able to get an erection, put a condom on and have sex with her - for a while.
I didn't feel much, just enough to keep the erection.
After a position change it didn't get real hard again, receiving BJ helped a bit, but I also felt more numb as time went on and reaching O was not possible.
I didnt PMO or MO 4 days beforehand and that didnt seem to help at all.
Now I would like to reboot, but I'm unsure about a few things.
I read that ejaculating regularily helps to clean the prostate and reduce risk of cancer.
Do you really need to not O for a long time or is it just to not PMO or MO while fantasizing?
I tried MO without fantasizing and to my surprise it worked, but I had to M fast. Doesn't seem helpful.
What do you think about having sex with guys if I keep my hands off my body? Anal/prostatestimulation? Of course I usually MO while doing this but if I stopped MO and fantasizing and just focus on the feelings of my body?
Would this still hurt the reboot?
What if I get the chance to PIV again? Can't hurt to try?
Big thanks!
Always looking for new and better stuff.
Never had a girlfriend and neither sex.
Over the last 2 years I found interest in anal play and gay sex. I met a few guys, had some unsatisfying and unpleasant sex but also some satisfying dates.
But I only had O when I MO'd while giving BJ or receiving anal.
Last week I had a threesome with a guy I knew and a girl. I was able to get an erection, put a condom on and have sex with her - for a while.
I didn't feel much, just enough to keep the erection.
After a position change it didn't get real hard again, receiving BJ helped a bit, but I also felt more numb as time went on and reaching O was not possible.
I didnt PMO or MO 4 days beforehand and that didnt seem to help at all.
Now I would like to reboot, but I'm unsure about a few things.
I read that ejaculating regularily helps to clean the prostate and reduce risk of cancer.
Do you really need to not O for a long time or is it just to not PMO or MO while fantasizing?
I tried MO without fantasizing and to my surprise it worked, but I had to M fast. Doesn't seem helpful.
What do you think about having sex with guys if I keep my hands off my body? Anal/prostatestimulation? Of course I usually MO while doing this but if I stopped MO and fantasizing and just focus on the feelings of my body?
Would this still hurt the reboot?
What if I get the chance to PIV again? Can't hurt to try?
Big thanks!