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riahatesporn
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I am a wife of lost husband I don't want to call him an addict...
I believe that there's a deeper reason why partners, husband, or family members are doing it and there's actually light if our partners or husbands are aware of the addiction and they're trying to change for us and for themselves. at least even if they kept on failing they're willing to try again and start over. For me it's something that I admire with my husband he is the guy who always say that "I WILL KEEP TRYING and I WILL NEVER GIVE UP" because yes it is really shameful to admit that you failed and you did it again but he would always tell me if he failed ,and yes we will argue over it because I was hurt and I'll say mean things to him due to the pain and sometimes to the extent that I had really felt like giving up....I would even say I'm tired of it and it's depressing true it really is depressing specially when you really love your husband and you feel like it's never ending and he's been lost for a while and you can't lead him to the right direction to get home to you...but my husband is never a quitter he's a fighter I really love those qualities of him..
although he's in the dark as long as there's a spark of light and he's never giving up I know soon he will find his way home to me to where he belongs (in my arms)....that spark will keep him going although it's hard...partly I feel sorry for the words I have said because he's hurting too..
we wives and partners who post here about how we feel about what they're doing to us and our relationship and yes we cried a hundred times for this issue for the lost relationship for the lost love for the lost connection but let's ask ourselves is it just us who are hurting?....they are hurting too both person in the relationship are experiencing hurt...
no husband or boyfriend enjoys seeing their partners cry and make them feel not good enough.. we should be glad were not lost and yes we feel sad depressed about it but be glad you're not the one who is lost and you can be the light to lead him to you....I realize that this things doesn't happen without any reason and for sure giving up is not the answer..I would say I'm letting go of the hurt and the pain it caused me because as long as the feeling. is there I know I will not be a bright enough light to lead him back to me...be cheerful and stay positive that's what I'm working towards right now with my self and keep the love alive...as long as the blood in those veins are still pumping keep trying and keep supporting AJA!!!!! we will all make it to the happy ending
I believe that there's a deeper reason why partners, husband, or family members are doing it and there's actually light if our partners or husbands are aware of the addiction and they're trying to change for us and for themselves. at least even if they kept on failing they're willing to try again and start over. For me it's something that I admire with my husband he is the guy who always say that "I WILL KEEP TRYING and I WILL NEVER GIVE UP" because yes it is really shameful to admit that you failed and you did it again but he would always tell me if he failed ,and yes we will argue over it because I was hurt and I'll say mean things to him due to the pain and sometimes to the extent that I had really felt like giving up....I would even say I'm tired of it and it's depressing true it really is depressing specially when you really love your husband and you feel like it's never ending and he's been lost for a while and you can't lead him to the right direction to get home to you...but my husband is never a quitter he's a fighter I really love those qualities of him..
although he's in the dark as long as there's a spark of light and he's never giving up I know soon he will find his way home to me to where he belongs (in my arms)....that spark will keep him going although it's hard...partly I feel sorry for the words I have said because he's hurting too..
we wives and partners who post here about how we feel about what they're doing to us and our relationship and yes we cried a hundred times for this issue for the lost relationship for the lost love for the lost connection but let's ask ourselves is it just us who are hurting?....they are hurting too both person in the relationship are experiencing hurt...
no husband or boyfriend enjoys seeing their partners cry and make them feel not good enough.. we should be glad were not lost and yes we feel sad depressed about it but be glad you're not the one who is lost and you can be the light to lead him to you....I realize that this things doesn't happen without any reason and for sure giving up is not the answer..I would say I'm letting go of the hurt and the pain it caused me because as long as the feeling. is there I know I will not be a bright enough light to lead him back to me...be cheerful and stay positive that's what I'm working towards right now with my self and keep the love alive...as long as the blood in those veins are still pumping keep trying and keep supporting AJA!!!!! we will all make it to the happy ending