patricklaw3223
New Member
Hey Guys! I am sooo stoaked to have finally broke the addiction to watching porn. I have not masturbated for porn now for 97 days.
I have been dating a beautiful amazing girl since I first started this no FAP deal. We waited 3 months so have sex. My libido is great and I have no trouble what so ever with ED or delayed ejaculation. What has been frustrating is Premature Ejaculation. I get so excited with my girlfriend that I have the hardest time retaining my orgasms.
For the 3 months we have been dating we have not been having sex till just recently. (had sex about 4 times now). For those 3 months I went form ejaculating while dry humping, to ejaculating with a light hand job, and so on. It is always better if we go several rounds or for consecutive days.
I am comfortable communicating with her about slowing down, stopping for a moment, so I can hold back my ejaculation and continue when I am not on the edge. She appears to think it is silly that I try so hard to not ejaculate. She understands that I want to extend the duration of sex for good reasons and not just because I am embarrassed or want to please her more. ( i know how much she like to have her clit rubbed and licked).
So I am stuck here guys. I feel like if I am patient. It will get better, and that I am just excited to be having sex with my girlfriend. I am also wondering if I am plagued by being ultra-sensitive?
Does anyone relate?
Does anyone have advice for prolonging sex?
What is your take on edging? Kegal? Masturbating before sex?
Would greatly appreciate your experience if you are willing to share.
Congrats to all who are taking responsibility for their health and quality of life.
Sincerely,
Patrick Lawrence
I have been dating a beautiful amazing girl since I first started this no FAP deal. We waited 3 months so have sex. My libido is great and I have no trouble what so ever with ED or delayed ejaculation. What has been frustrating is Premature Ejaculation. I get so excited with my girlfriend that I have the hardest time retaining my orgasms.
For the 3 months we have been dating we have not been having sex till just recently. (had sex about 4 times now). For those 3 months I went form ejaculating while dry humping, to ejaculating with a light hand job, and so on. It is always better if we go several rounds or for consecutive days.
I am comfortable communicating with her about slowing down, stopping for a moment, so I can hold back my ejaculation and continue when I am not on the edge. She appears to think it is silly that I try so hard to not ejaculate. She understands that I want to extend the duration of sex for good reasons and not just because I am embarrassed or want to please her more. ( i know how much she like to have her clit rubbed and licked).
So I am stuck here guys. I feel like if I am patient. It will get better, and that I am just excited to be having sex with my girlfriend. I am also wondering if I am plagued by being ultra-sensitive?
Does anyone relate?
Does anyone have advice for prolonging sex?
What is your take on edging? Kegal? Masturbating before sex?
Would greatly appreciate your experience if you are willing to share.
Congrats to all who are taking responsibility for their health and quality of life.
Sincerely,
Patrick Lawrence
