Yes, I think this is correct. If one had 10 sport cars, 15 mansions all over the world, a harem full of women in all nationalities and forms he still wouldn?t be fulfilled. For example many rap/rock stars are throwing their lifes away on women and drugs because there is nothing to gain anymore then numbness. Or many people who grew up rich can not appreciate what they have. Or just grew up in a good society (western world). I really do appreciate that I have all my ten fingers, funtctionable eyes, a nose (a little bit big one
) and so on. Life goes up and down, up and down. The way I see it is you work, you achieve something and you can enjoy it more than you would if it was given to you for zero effort. You take a break, go on vacation and you can enjoy it thankfully after hard work. You fought for something and got it in the end, you will appreciate it and it fulfills you for some time (There is a good movie on that subject "Vanilla Sky", even though I dont like the main actor). For example I have chosen pickup for now, approaching random girls, attract them and bring them back home to her or my place. It was not easy for me because I had to work on so many things, confidence, being more alpha, more talkative to name a few. But when I am getting success I can really enjoy it because I worked for it and I feel deep fulfillment in the moment. I know many people consider this as stupid and I can understand that. Most want to get married and have a few kids and a stable job and this is perfectly fine, I am not judging. But it?s the way I choose for me because I have to work constantly on myself and for me its a real success. No dating sites, no f....... apps because you will get rewarded for almost doing nothing. I want to be challenged. That said its only one thing in a life. You can work on many areas and accomplish a lot. Life is changing constantly and you cannot be fulfilled 24/7. One has to decide what he/she wants to get out of life. Hamburger or Salad, Playstation or Jogging, TV or reading, ED or reboot, get kicked or kicking asses
I am a very extreme guy with high spikes and rock bottom lows - I think the most healthiest way is to find something in between without loosing passion.