Is this a healthy way to reboot?

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al12w

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Hi everyone. So basically i figured out today while showering that if I touch/rub my body (literally, not MO) I can force a decent erection. Is this a good way to reboot ? I fantasize about someone attractive who isnt a porn star.Is the fact that i am fantasizing though damaging to my reboot? Also, I find that it only works with certain parts of the body (or at least some parts more so than others). Is that connected to my former porn use?

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Kubrick

Kubrick

Member
Yeah, I agree. If I were You, I'd do hard mode, if problem isn't that bad hard mode should get you recovered very soon.
 
Curtis

Curtis

Member
I'd lay off the self-touching, while fantasizing. The fantasizing to me, is the problem porn brought me...nothing in real life ever matches up. The touching alone bringing decent erections is a great sign you're on the right track. Be patient, it will get a whole lot better (I have faith!), but apparently normal people have sex with each other with nothing else on their minds...than each other. What goes on "inside your brain", is where the problems lie. Fantasies lead to...dissatisfaction with the real thing. And overcoming addiction requires all of us...to make friends with reality. (but what do I know, I'm only on day 16). Keep it up! (just don't touch it). Curtis
 
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