Healing process question

[MikeElam23]

Hey guys,
I've read that the reboot process of healing is longer for young men (teens-20's) than men of older age, something to do with the brain(forgot the exact reasons). My question is I started Masturbating to sexual images at 24 years old. It was around February or March 2014, and i'm 25 years old now(turned 25 in June). So basically i've been masturbating for a year. I'm trying to quit and setting my reboot to 1 year(Feb 17,2016). I'm wondering if that will be enough time for me to heal based on my history, or will 90 days do it. My history of masturbating started with regular porn pictures or video models images and escalated to youtube twerking videos and then to naked twerking videos. Luckily my interests have not extended beyond those triggers. Your thoughts appreciated. 

 

[Berens]

Hi, dont worry about the time. You are a little in a lucky position because you havent grow with porn and you were addicted only for a year. After 90 days you should be like before watching porn. I dont know about you erectile disfuncion, how are your erections with your partner? If you cant have sex niw, you will be able for sure after some weeks.

 

[Maxime]

Yeah you're in a super good position! Good thing that you found the way so early. It took me so much longer to understand!
Let us know how it goes!

 

[MikeElam23]

Hi, dont worry about the time. You are a little in a lucky position because you havent grow with porn and you were addicted only for a year. After 90 days you should be like before watching porn. I dont know about you erectile disfuncion, how are your erections with your partner? If you cant have sex niw, you will be able for sure after some weeks.

Well I don't currently have a partner, but I do know that my erections have been getting weaker, on some days i haven't had an erection at all. I have really struggled to quit this addiction, my longest was 15 days (Jan 15 or 16 to Jan 31st), but at the same time i realize my problem ISN'T masturbation it's porn. Take my laptop away indefinitely, the need for a "release" and sense of horniness wouldn't come until my body feels it's time. View porn or anything sexual, and it's like your brain is saying,"your horny, time to get off." All in all i just want to regain the strong erections i had, and my libido. I do realize porn is my issue not masturbation, or maybe just not my desire to experience an orgasm is becoming unhealthy(i.e sex addicts), and the level of difficulty it takes to attain it easier with your computer, as opposed to having to actually a pursue a woman, deal with rejection ect, something that i experienced a lot that may have contributed to me withdrawing from the dating scene and succumbing to porn/masturbation. 

 

[MikeElam23]

Yeah you're in a super good position! Good thing that you found the way so early. It took me so much longer to understand!
Let us know how it goes!

Thanks. I feel my issue is porn and the/ desire to experience an orgasm constantly. Which thus can't come from a woman, comes from masturbation via porn. My best bet is i need to stay busy these 90 days and refrain from orgasms so my penis can heal i guess, and regain it's true form.

 

[Maxime]

Precisely my goal, too! Keep at it, don't give up!