I've been noticing some really disturbing changes over the last year or so. It started getting more and more difficult to maintain an erection when having sex with my GF. Over time, it got worse and worse. At first I put it down to an unhealthy lifestyle: I smoked a pack a day, didn't work out and work a high stress job. So I made some changes - gave up tobacco and started working out. Imagine my surprise when my ED continued to get worse!
Now, I've always watched porn, ever since I was 13 or 14 (I'm 30 now). First it was magazines and pictures, then DVDs, then short clips online. Eventually high-speed internet came along, and it was like hitting the jackpot. Been PMO'ing ever since, usually 2 or 3 times a week with the occasional binge of a few days in a row.
Anyway, when my ED didn't improve, that's when I suspected it might be porn-related. Google'd and found rebootnation... What an eye opener. As soon as I started reading some of the journals here, I immediately realized I'm addicted to porn (or dopamine.. whatever). Didn't really surprise me. I'm a recovering alcoholic and I've been sober from alcohol for a year and a half, doing a 12-step program. So I'm familiar with the fact that I'm not really good at dealing with life/emotions and prefer to have some external way of dealing with it.
I've decided to make a change. I don't want to live like this anymore. Hate the guilt and shame. And definitely hate not being able to connect with my significant other. So here I am.. Today is day 6, and the last few days have sucked. Everything, from anxiety, to anger, to lack of motivation. Been through worse when detoxing from alcohol - but that only lasted 2 weeks! 90 days of this though...
One day at a time then. Won't PMO today, and I'll worry about tomorrow tomorrow. So thanks for everyone that's posted here. It's helped. It's given me hope that there's a way out.
Now, I've always watched porn, ever since I was 13 or 14 (I'm 30 now). First it was magazines and pictures, then DVDs, then short clips online. Eventually high-speed internet came along, and it was like hitting the jackpot. Been PMO'ing ever since, usually 2 or 3 times a week with the occasional binge of a few days in a row.
Anyway, when my ED didn't improve, that's when I suspected it might be porn-related. Google'd and found rebootnation... What an eye opener. As soon as I started reading some of the journals here, I immediately realized I'm addicted to porn (or dopamine.. whatever). Didn't really surprise me. I'm a recovering alcoholic and I've been sober from alcohol for a year and a half, doing a 12-step program. So I'm familiar with the fact that I'm not really good at dealing with life/emotions and prefer to have some external way of dealing with it.
I've decided to make a change. I don't want to live like this anymore. Hate the guilt and shame. And definitely hate not being able to connect with my significant other. So here I am.. Today is day 6, and the last few days have sucked. Everything, from anxiety, to anger, to lack of motivation. Been through worse when detoxing from alcohol - but that only lasted 2 weeks! 90 days of this though...
One day at a time then. Won't PMO today, and I'll worry about tomorrow tomorrow. So thanks for everyone that's posted here. It's helped. It's given me hope that there's a way out.