Jimmy James
Active Member
I am a 47 year old guy in recovery and currently on day 56 of my reboot. You can read my journal in the over 40 section if you wish. There you can see that my first exposure to porn was as a pre-teen and it was just a magazine. I have an 11 year old son and 15 year old daughter and I know that all kids now have much more access to porn if they seek it. Young kids have a more difficult time dealing with porn addiction than us old guys because of that early easy access.
My question is how would you as a teen or even younger want to interact with your parents as far as avoiding porn and porn addiction? It has got to be the most awkward thing in the world to discuss for both parent and child. Nobody wants to have this discussion, but it really is pretty important. What should a parent say and more importantly not say to their child about porn? So far I have not had such a discussion with my kids.
The only thing I have done is use OpenDNS on our router as a filter to block a lot of access to porn. While I am not computer illiterate, I am no expert either and I know that a lot of kids can find ways around filters. You can also not stop kids from sending stuff to each other. My kids only have iPads right now, so most of their access can be filtered at our router (when they are at our house). I suppose there will come a day when they will have smart phones, which will create a new issue to deal with. What would you as a teen recommend to parents for limiting access to internet porn?
Thanks for providing a different perspective on this issue.
My question is how would you as a teen or even younger want to interact with your parents as far as avoiding porn and porn addiction? It has got to be the most awkward thing in the world to discuss for both parent and child. Nobody wants to have this discussion, but it really is pretty important. What should a parent say and more importantly not say to their child about porn? So far I have not had such a discussion with my kids.
The only thing I have done is use OpenDNS on our router as a filter to block a lot of access to porn. While I am not computer illiterate, I am no expert either and I know that a lot of kids can find ways around filters. You can also not stop kids from sending stuff to each other. My kids only have iPads right now, so most of their access can be filtered at our router (when they are at our house). I suppose there will come a day when they will have smart phones, which will create a new issue to deal with. What would you as a teen recommend to parents for limiting access to internet porn?
Thanks for providing a different perspective on this issue.