Sex for First Time in Reboot

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grahamman

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So this was my first time having sex yesterday. We made out and grinded a little at the beginning of the date in which I got pretty much fully hard then we went to a movie and decided to have sex after. I had some anxiety at the beginning so when she tried giving me head to warm me up I wasn't getting hard. She told me to relax and I took some deep breaths and after a few minutes I got hard. Put on the condom and it softened a bit and we had sex for like 8 or so minutes before I O'ed. Didn't O with a full erection but I was just focusing on the sensation and my girlfriend (not porn or anything else). Is this good progress? We decided to do a no cum thing for a week or two (alternating each week) so I feel it could get better. Was this performance anxiety or still related to PIED. I got like a 90% MW that morning. Thanks.
 
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OSS

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Is it progress? Well we having to compare this experience to so it's impossible to say.

I think not Oing is probably your best option, if it's difficult to get hard it's highly likely in your best interest to not O even with your girlfriend. Sure once every week or two would be good but even longer would be better. You can still have sex and etc just stop early, look into karezza you and your girlfriend may find it to be a suitable option.

PIED or PA, probably a combination of both but much more likely more so PIED
 
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