Right on StevenT!!
40 days and beyond is such a great achievement. I get it, it's hard not to ogle those dudes at the gym and have them on your mind later. Or at least I have them on my mind later. So I'm not so sure that's too dysfunctional, really, in the big scheme. They are real people, and seriously, if they didn't want people looking at their bodies, they wouldn't look the way they do. That's kind of the point, to look great and attract positive attention.
I know we're not supposed to objectivize others; I got that. And then I live in my real world and have to take some pleasure where I can get it. Not that I'm whackin all over the place. Like you, I'm certainly not. But you know it happens and then we move on to something else.
It's great that you share your concerns with us. We each have our unique angle and lens through which we see the world. Focusing on all the things other than porn is what we're here for. Some guys can go without MO forever, some don't. Keeping our perspective and realizing moderation in all things isn't necessarily a bad thing works for me, at least.
Keep going man. You're really doing great.
R2G