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caster

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As long as you don't get discourage I personally say go for it.  I know im doing it with my gf everytime we are both willing.  That being said Im by no means perfect yet..
 
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Maxime

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I find it scary. To me it's a big risk of relapsing if I get too close to climax but then stop. It's frustrating. I don't see any benefit in it.
If you want to try karezza, though, that might be beneficial, I guess, as it's much less about genital satisfaction than emotional contact with a person.
 
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need to get better

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Hey guys.. you wrote on my post about how pied doesn't come overnight.. well my erection problems did.. I was about to have sex with a girl that I have had sex woth a ton of times and before we started she was talking about sex some other guy.. (we were not in a relationship and she was trying to make me jealous).. but I had had sex with her many times before this.. also I have don't the test of using porn and not using porn to masturbate.. without porn it was hard for me to get it up.. but with porn it shot right up.. of course only to my preferred porn.. but idk.. is my problem porn related or just anxiety.. keep in mind also I have been having sex with this girl for over a year and been with many other girls too.. and ever since that night my dick hasn't been the same..? What doyu guys think anxiety or pied??.. also I'll add.. that I cannot get hard to anything else but that specific type of porn.. nothing else excites or interests me
 
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Maxime

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For me I noticed some change 2 or 3 months prior to the big incident of no erections at all. Except at the time, I was always finding something to blame for it. Too tired, masturbated in the morning, etc, etc, until it just wouldn't get hard at all, which seemed at the time as if it had happened overnight. But now I know, it was happening over time, slowly but surely.
 
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Maxime

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I just read your other message again. It's a bit hard to understand I have to say, but from what I understand, you couldn't get hard by yourself, but you did with porn, and only with your favorite stuff. Right? That sounds like PIED to me.
 
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need to get better

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Yes.. extremely hard to get a boner without porn and not just normal porn.. it has to be a specific type of porn.. nothing else will get me going as far as porn goes and as soon as I see that kind of porn it gets hard immediately
 
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Guys I'm not gonna lie I woke Up this morning with massive anxiety.. everything in my life is good except for this.. I make good money I have a nice car loving family good friends and even a gf.. I did just move into this new house woth 3 of my buddies and that might be giving me anxiety that may have spilled over into this dick problem.. idk man
 
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need to get better

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Correction it was at 395.. anyways.. feeling pretty down about this whole thing.. idk what to do really about this new relationship I'm in cuz I can have sex with her I guess for almost three months.. idk what I'm gonna do.. hopefully I figure this out soon..
 
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User123

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need to get better said:
Correction it was at 395.. anyways.. feeling pretty down about this whole thing.. idk what to do really about this new relationship I'm in cuz I can have sex with her I guess for almost three months.. idk what I'm gonna do.. hopefully I figure this out soon..
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I'm pretty new to this, but from my perspective having a relationship complicates it. I told my girlfriend yesterday, she was perfectly understanding and was really great about it, just as I'm sure your partner will.. I'm willing to go through the stress and mass of sexual frustration with my girlfriend, because well I love her.. But I feel it would be mostly easier without her.. If I was you, I would have a think about how important your partner is to you, whether it's just a long fling or is serious. If so, tell her and I'm sure you can get through it together!

On the contrary, having a partner to be able to re link with, and strengthen the real life sex connection is going to be very beneficial I believe...

To the 'i don't know what I'm gonna do'.. Stop. Now. And never go back... I'm 15 and its began to ruin my sex life, I hate the shit. Porn and masturbation that is! Just commit to it now, stop masturbating to porn, stop watching any porn at all.. Read others stories, learn what you need to do, and it might take some adjustment over time but eventually you'll be on the road to a full recovery from shitty old porn and floppy cocks..
 
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