Hi,
I have just blocked all porn content from my computer. I have tried to shake off porn a few months ago and lasted about 4 weeks. In that time i did feel like a different person. Before that point I did not realise I was addicted to porn. I knew I was not doing me any good. I'm 34 and have looked at porn since my early teens. Back in my early teens it was just a dirty mag i'd got hold of and that continued until I got the internet at home around 2000, maybe slightly before. The first thing I did was load up porn. One thing that i did stumble upon was camgirls. This to me was absolutley fantastic. Directing girls to do what I wanted. This ended up with me using cam girls sites before I went to uni in the morning, when i got home etc. and carrying on up to this day although now i'm not in debt... I ended up maxing 3 credit card mainly on these sites and having to go on a debt management plan to reduce the payments because I could not keep up. At that time i met a lovely lady and ended up moving in with her and loving her alot. But, the porn and cam girls were still there. And because I was satisfying myself on my own it took the edge of my urges toward my girlfriend. She once saw one of the cam girl site in my history and went mad. I said I was just curious which was bull. She said she would not have been too bothered if I was having sex with her all the time and it showed i had a sex drive. This as I have recently found out is not a sex drive it is addiction to chemicals in your brain. Anyway, eventually after a four year relationship she left because she though i did not find her attractive due to my lack of interest. All down to porn.. the relation ship and the debt. losing my girfriend/best pal was a dark time and I can honestly say its the worst thing thats ever happened to me. Now I have just called it a day on a new relationship with a very good looking girl because I seem to be sabotaging it. still on the porn cam girls but having more real sex. My heads a mess really and I know why and what I need to do. So here I am determined to cut this junk out of my life and find the real me, because the three weeks without porn i have done was great.
All comments welcome, and i'll try keep up daily with this log.
I have just blocked all porn content from my computer. I have tried to shake off porn a few months ago and lasted about 4 weeks. In that time i did feel like a different person. Before that point I did not realise I was addicted to porn. I knew I was not doing me any good. I'm 34 and have looked at porn since my early teens. Back in my early teens it was just a dirty mag i'd got hold of and that continued until I got the internet at home around 2000, maybe slightly before. The first thing I did was load up porn. One thing that i did stumble upon was camgirls. This to me was absolutley fantastic. Directing girls to do what I wanted. This ended up with me using cam girls sites before I went to uni in the morning, when i got home etc. and carrying on up to this day although now i'm not in debt... I ended up maxing 3 credit card mainly on these sites and having to go on a debt management plan to reduce the payments because I could not keep up. At that time i met a lovely lady and ended up moving in with her and loving her alot. But, the porn and cam girls were still there. And because I was satisfying myself on my own it took the edge of my urges toward my girlfriend. She once saw one of the cam girl site in my history and went mad. I said I was just curious which was bull. She said she would not have been too bothered if I was having sex with her all the time and it showed i had a sex drive. This as I have recently found out is not a sex drive it is addiction to chemicals in your brain. Anyway, eventually after a four year relationship she left because she though i did not find her attractive due to my lack of interest. All down to porn.. the relation ship and the debt. losing my girfriend/best pal was a dark time and I can honestly say its the worst thing thats ever happened to me. Now I have just called it a day on a new relationship with a very good looking girl because I seem to be sabotaging it. still on the porn cam girls but having more real sex. My heads a mess really and I know why and what I need to do. So here I am determined to cut this junk out of my life and find the real me, because the three weeks without porn i have done was great.
All comments welcome, and i'll try keep up daily with this log.