Here is my problem Im 17 now and when I was in nursery I liked girls I can remember that all the time running for one beautiful girl and I kissed her in a cheek it was beautiful and through elmentary school I liked a lot of girls and I can remember that every time when I saw half naked women or naked I would be so horny and and I started to rub my dick on eneything when I would see something like that and with that I would have some orgasm I was horny all the time in 7th grade I had a girlfriend and I was so happy with her I wanted to hug her or be with her all the time I looked first porn in 4th grade but I got highspeed internet in 6th grade and didnt go out at all I was just looking at porn all the time from normal porn to more end more extreme porn I was looking for more and more weirder porn I would be horny when I was watching women pissing on another women and get horny and now a problem the last porn when was everything normal was with two girls that are raped form some men every thing was boring just that was aroused for me and when that became boring I started to watch gay agressive domination porn and shemale porn and from then when I would 1 week or something like that without porn the old porn would become little aroused for me and I would watch for 2-3 hours fapp day by day and it becomes boring again and gay porn would very arousing for me and I started to have fantasis about that kind of sex when is someone agressive with me and dominates over me it is like when I see women on the street I dont feel eneything eneymore Im cold when I see beautiful women on the street when I watch sraight porn I get an erection but it is not the same I DONT FEEL AROUSED like before I think that my longest without porn is 3 weeks when a watch girls solo porn I get erection immediately and when I watch gay solo porn I dont get an erection but that agressive porn is something else its something like forbidden I dont now I liked many girls through my life never men and I STARTED TO WATCH PORN WHEN I WAS 11 I dont now what to do and when I see some girls I become worried how do I look and what they think about me please help
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Jimmy James
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It is quite common for porn users to escalate to extreme genres including opposite your innate sexual orientation. It is all a search for novelty. It does not mean you are gay if you watch gay porn. The solution is simple. Stop watching all porn. It will take time for reboot back to factory settings. Be patient with yourself.
Im so confused because strange is that if im bisexual or gay how i dont have erection when Im watching solo gay scenes and naked men but I have erection when I watch solo women scene end when I look at naked women I get immeditaly erection bus pornos became boring to me I guess because I was watching too much
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DanteKO
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As Jimmy stated, the best thing for you to do is to stop watching porn altogether. Porn can morph your tastes and attractions into ones that are more extreme or more disturbing, and this topic has been seen in relation to HOCD and fears/obsessions/anxiety about sexual orientation. I used to watch videos involving stepmother and stepsister sex scenarios, and obviously they can be seen as more extreme porno or even more forbidden types of interests but keep in mind these are just videos that your porn-wired brain is watching just for a stronger dopamine response, and they do not align with who you really are, and just because you watched a shemale video does not mean you are bisexual or gay. The last thing you want to do is check other men for arousal responses or trying to test yourself. This is the worst possible thing you could do and I did this when I was 13 years old and it led to serious anxiety, OCD, ulcers, gray hair and signs of balding. What stopped me from worrying about being confused sexually was getting rid of pornography and ending all of my sexual fantasizing. My brain has slowly begun to rewire and it feels like I'm letting the "color" back in with the opposite sex and my sexual orientation as a straight male. I actually now have begun having emotional feelings towards women instead of objectifying them like I used to with the help of pornography. So all in all, quit porn and you will slowly begin to have less self-doubt.
Phase2
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I'm gay and towards the end of my porn addiction I was jerking off to straight porn. It was a little freaky for me too. After researching http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/erectile-dysfunction-question, I learned It's the search for novelty that messes with our true nature and sexual attractions. Don't sweat it. Just do what the previous guys said: stop watching porn. Simple. Good luck, man.
Jimmy James
Active Member
Who do you want to kiss? Men or women?
That might be a better indicator than what type of porn you no longer use.
That might be a better indicator than what type of porn you no longer use.