singledadof1
New Member
I'm pissed off....
I'm 40 years old and my problems go back to when I was in middle school in the 80's. My default personality is introverted and a loner. The isolation made my people skills worse, and now that I'm a single father, the depression is really kicking my ass. I ended a marriage with the mother of my son (she's still an exceptional woman) and had a chance with another exceptional woman last year that I also ended. The isolation-depression-introverted combination is not good. I've known about this Porn-ED stuff for years. I've even done reboots for a month or two several times but I always went back to the comfort zone. If I had actually gone through with the reboot and abstained from porn, then that second woman might be my wife right now. I'm angry enough now to do a reboot.
The Plan: My son lives with his mother during the summers so I'm going to join a gym in June. I have a set of dumbbells, workout dvds, and a good pair of running shoes. I'll do this just like when I quit smoking 7 years ago; substitute one habit for another and keep busy. Will it work with this beast?
I'm 40 years old and my problems go back to when I was in middle school in the 80's. My default personality is introverted and a loner. The isolation made my people skills worse, and now that I'm a single father, the depression is really kicking my ass. I ended a marriage with the mother of my son (she's still an exceptional woman) and had a chance with another exceptional woman last year that I also ended. The isolation-depression-introverted combination is not good. I've known about this Porn-ED stuff for years. I've even done reboots for a month or two several times but I always went back to the comfort zone. If I had actually gone through with the reboot and abstained from porn, then that second woman might be my wife right now. I'm angry enough now to do a reboot.
The Plan: My son lives with his mother during the summers so I'm going to join a gym in June. I have a set of dumbbells, workout dvds, and a good pair of running shoes. I'll do this just like when I quit smoking 7 years ago; substitute one habit for another and keep busy. Will it work with this beast?