Am I cured?

[liveradiance]

This will be just quick background and few questions:
==Started reboot more than 11 weeks ago. No relapse what so ever. Been fooling around with multiple girls all that time at least twice a week. Kissing, cuddling, blowjobs, handjobs but no orgasams
==Get erections just from kissing. That started around day 30
==Few days ago I had sex, climaxed. It lasted about 30 sec because of how sensitive I am now
==Got hard 10 min after that again
==Woke up day after that feeling alright, same as before. Noraml. No anxiety.
==Touched myself in bed, got hard again. I can't get hard just from touching it, but if I put my whole hand around it and gently go up and down it gets hard

==But, my erections don't lock. I get hard pretty quickly with girls but if stand up or switch positions they fade away. I get hard easily when am laying down on my back, but I can't get hard if am standing up

Also, day before that I had a wet dream. I didn't go flat after that just noticed that my erection quality is little lower.

1) If orgasming to porn wires your brain to porn, does that mean if I start to orgasam with my girlfriend it will wire itself back to real girls?
2) If am getting hard after I had an orgasam and I am not in the flatline again does that mean I can start having sex and orgasaming with my girl or because my erections don't lock yet should I give some more time?

For any more information:
My spreedsheet: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0Av3HdJaSDmp_dHhwZmlROXpJT252SnRDWndwc3pxZUE&usp=docslist_api#gid=0
My journal: http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=18674.0

 

[Gabe Deem]

@ liveradiance

1) If orgasming to porn wires your brain to porn, does that mean if I start to orgasam with my girlfriend it will wire itself back to real girls?

Yes, this is true. However, guys with PIED usually report that orgasms send them back into a flatline early on in their reboot. But it sounds like you are no longer going back into the flatline after orgasm so that is a great sign. I would just be careful not to over do things for a while.

2) If am getting hard after I had an orgasam and I am not in the flatline again does that mean I can start having sex and O'ing with my girl or because my erections don't lock yet should I give some more time?

Well it does mean you can start doing that. But I would just take it easy, observe what happens without over thinking things. If you feel yourself going into a flatline, spread your O's out a little more. 

Advice: Have sex very slowly, passionately, lots of pausing and kissing, and holding. If you feel yourself getting close to orgasm stop and just breath. Pleasure her for a bit while you calm down. You have to train your brain to have sex slowly and focus on sensation and emotions rather than simply visuals. Be patient with this as it can take time to get past that PE stage. It took me a while to get past it.

It sounds like you are doing great, I wouldn't worry to much about a slight drop in erection strength shortly after an O, that is fairly normal and should get better with a little more reboot time.

Congrats on 11 weeks! Keep going strong and I hope the best for you

 

[liveradiance]

Your words are blessing. Thank you man.

 

[Viper]

I'm no expert so I can't tell you if you have fully recovered but at the very least, you are on your way.
I would rather wear a condom but find myself losing stiffness when I try to wrap.
I am improving with my reboot where I can penetrate but like you, I don't last long because I
am sensitive. So it's like I'm having sex for the first time all over again. I think that will improve
with repetition. But things are looking up for you so stick with the program.