RSGrimm
Member
Background: Most of my life I have been surrounded by friends and family but I felt more like a person alone on a deserted island with only this sin/addiction/{your term goes here} as my companion. I am 47 and was introduced to porn at 8 when I and a few of my friends found a magazine in the woods. After that one of the kids down the street?s dad had a huge stash in a room behind their garage. I then used retail catalogs to feed my desire. Once in college many of my roommates had magazines I would look at when they were gone. Once out of college I got into pictures on the internet and later videos. I got married and nothing really changed. I have been success full 3 times in the past for up to a year. First was in high school and I used prayer and scripture. The second period was for about 8 months and I did the Setting Captives Free program. I didn?t confess to my wife and I had very bad local accountability partners. (when you and your accountability partners use justification more than encouragement and no one calls ?BS? it not a good environment) Later I did the program again, confessed to my wife (NOT FUN!!) but still had no local accountability and I also deployed overseas for a year (not an excuse just fact). After that I have maybe made it three weeks before a fall. I seem to have lost the drive to get over this. I have read a lot of YBoP and I have all the symptoms except ED (tired all the time, brain fog, can?t remember, introverted, depression, etc.) I was driving the other day thinking about how I was such a double minded person (believing one thing living another), but I couldn?t remember the words. I kept searching for the words ?double minded? but had brain fog really bad. Then a car passed by and it?s license plate abbreviated ?double minded?. It kind of freaked me out. Do you think someone is trying to tell me something? So I got online and found this site. I figure what is the worst that could happen, I could end up not doing porn for more than 3 weeks. I don?t even enjoy it any more, I feel hollow and dead inside even while looking at it. Yet, only a little while later I?m back at it. I wanted to go look at porn before posting this (sick man!).
Goals: Be free and able to think!
? Did I use porn today? No
? What were my triggers? Staying away from news sites (they are just a few clicks away from a fall)
? How did I soothe my anxiety or stress? (coffee)
? What am I grateful for today? (this website and those who participate on it)
1 day since I last PMO?d
Goals: Be free and able to think!
? Did I use porn today? No
? What were my triggers? Staying away from news sites (they are just a few clicks away from a fall)
? How did I soothe my anxiety or stress? (coffee)
? What am I grateful for today? (this website and those who participate on it)
1 day since I last PMO?d