Did lack of porn cause these problems?

[DeoVindice91]

2 months ago i broke up with my girlfriend of 7 years and almost immediately entered a sexual relationship with a high school friend. Right before i broke up with my girlfriend i decided to start my journey to get porn out of my life. It was very noticeable that i had absolutely no emotions when i broke up with her...to the point it scared me. No tears,  and excessively partied...hard. I started thinking that maybe i didn't have any emotion and went sex crazy (sleeping with a high school friend multiple times) is because i quit porn. What do you all think?

 

[dc6]

Sounds more like you overreacted to a break up. Also possible is that you subconsciously wanted to make up for all of the freedom you did not have in the seven years you were in a relationship. Just being off PMO doesn't typically turn people into party maniacs

 

[liveradiance]

Once we find out about porn and what damage it can cause we tend to link all of our problems to our porn addiction and expect them to magically go away when we stop.

But quitting porn will just rebalance your brain neurochemistry. Having inbalanced neurochemistry only amplifies fears and ego that are already there.

Once your neurochemistry is balanced you will have more personal power to deal with internal as well as external events in your life.

Hope that helps.