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Hello- I am in my mid 30's and am married. I have been using PMO since high school and started seeing some of the negative effects (PIED) when with my wife. It has slowly become more of a regular occurrence over the past couple years. I was very excited to find YBOP and this site to help me understand what was causing these issues (I think I knew the problem in the back of my mind all along but didn't understand the science) Reading the forums and learning about the destructive consequences of excessive PMO have given me hope. I am very excited to learn there is a solution and I can fix my problems. I am 14 days into my reboot and feeling pretty good so far. Looking for an accountability partner who is in a similar situation to share support and advise during the process. (posted in req. for AP forum)
I wanted some advise from those of you who have been through or are going through this. I have cut out PMO for the past 14 days, I was dead set on going cold turkey once I discovered the wealth of information on PIED. I have shared this with my wife and she has been very supportive, as well as excited to have narrowed down the issues we are having.
We have been sexually active a couple times since the start of my reboot. What advise can you guys give for those of us in a relationship who choose to continue their sex life with partner while cutting out PMO, internet temptations ie, swimsuit, or sexy sites like the chive? I have removed my porn computer and am trying to install web filters on PC and Phone to limit temptations.
As far as side effects/withdrawal symptoms mine have been pretty minor. Difficulty sleeping the first couple nights, some down mood days. My sex drive has been up and down over the two weeks so far.
Thank you for your input.
I wanted some advise from those of you who have been through or are going through this. I have cut out PMO for the past 14 days, I was dead set on going cold turkey once I discovered the wealth of information on PIED. I have shared this with my wife and she has been very supportive, as well as excited to have narrowed down the issues we are having.
We have been sexually active a couple times since the start of my reboot. What advise can you guys give for those of us in a relationship who choose to continue their sex life with partner while cutting out PMO, internet temptations ie, swimsuit, or sexy sites like the chive? I have removed my porn computer and am trying to install web filters on PC and Phone to limit temptations.
As far as side effects/withdrawal symptoms mine have been pretty minor. Difficulty sleeping the first couple nights, some down mood days. My sex drive has been up and down over the two weeks so far.
Thank you for your input.