Hi there, since I've now turned 30 and I'm back on the forum after almost a year long absence I thought it fitting to start a new journal for a new beginning. My first journal for a proper introduction of myself and my problems can be found here:
http://legacy.rebootnation.org/index.php?topic=810.0
Now, the reason I haven't even logged in here for almost a year is because I've been in a pretty bad shape the entire time. I completely reverted back to my old PMO ways after a few setbacks elsewhere in life and its taken these past few months to just attempt getting my life back on track.
I lost that sense of the possibility of a happy future for myself and let myself get bogged down in the PMO swamp once more. I wasn't working, I wasn't studying, I wasn't working out. I was doing nothing except playing computer games and PMO. I've been trying to get some help concerning this addiction and its just taken forever to go through the proper channels and getting bounced back and forth a bit in the system but in 3 weeks I will have my first proper meeting with a psychologist who specializes in this area (sex addiction etc). Hopefully that will go well!
Thankfully I've been able to do a few things on my own as well, after speaking to one of the doctors who is in charge of my "case" I got that extra bit of motivation and actually applied for a school in a different city. A few weeks ago I heard back and I've been accepted, so come August I'm moving to a brand new city; I'm really happy about that!
Despite this good news and starting the process of getting professional help, I've not been able to quit PMO, not even attempted it actually. Until this weekend when a girl I was involved with a bit a few years ago got dumped by her boyfriend (Although they have since talked things out and are trying to stay together, even if its on very shaky ground).
I'd sworn to myself that if I ever got the possibility of a second chance with her, (I essentially neglected her and turned down her romantic intentions towards me) I would do everything I could to make that chance happen. That means no more PMO. That I have to get back in shape (I'm a bit overweight atm).
I've taken the first steps of fixing my life by going back to school in a new city to give me a fresh start this fall, now I need to start taking the steps towards that life being a good one. And that is something I can start right now, I don't have to wait until August. So now I've been PMO free a few days and its been a real struggle but I really hope I can start a positive trend for myself now and continue it throughout the summer.
Thanks for reading, I'd almost forgotten how good it can feel to write this stuff down and sharing it with you guys
http://legacy.rebootnation.org/index.php?topic=810.0
Now, the reason I haven't even logged in here for almost a year is because I've been in a pretty bad shape the entire time. I completely reverted back to my old PMO ways after a few setbacks elsewhere in life and its taken these past few months to just attempt getting my life back on track.
I lost that sense of the possibility of a happy future for myself and let myself get bogged down in the PMO swamp once more. I wasn't working, I wasn't studying, I wasn't working out. I was doing nothing except playing computer games and PMO. I've been trying to get some help concerning this addiction and its just taken forever to go through the proper channels and getting bounced back and forth a bit in the system but in 3 weeks I will have my first proper meeting with a psychologist who specializes in this area (sex addiction etc). Hopefully that will go well!
Thankfully I've been able to do a few things on my own as well, after speaking to one of the doctors who is in charge of my "case" I got that extra bit of motivation and actually applied for a school in a different city. A few weeks ago I heard back and I've been accepted, so come August I'm moving to a brand new city; I'm really happy about that!
Despite this good news and starting the process of getting professional help, I've not been able to quit PMO, not even attempted it actually. Until this weekend when a girl I was involved with a bit a few years ago got dumped by her boyfriend (Although they have since talked things out and are trying to stay together, even if its on very shaky ground).
I'd sworn to myself that if I ever got the possibility of a second chance with her, (I essentially neglected her and turned down her romantic intentions towards me) I would do everything I could to make that chance happen. That means no more PMO. That I have to get back in shape (I'm a bit overweight atm).
I've taken the first steps of fixing my life by going back to school in a new city to give me a fresh start this fall, now I need to start taking the steps towards that life being a good one. And that is something I can start right now, I don't have to wait until August. So now I've been PMO free a few days and its been a real struggle but I really hope I can start a positive trend for myself now and continue it throughout the summer.
Thanks for reading, I'd almost forgotten how good it can feel to write this stuff down and sharing it with you guys