Could we be going backwards?

[Stretchcomic]

Hey guys, I just had this thought that kind of freaked me out. For the last few weeks I've tried being an active member on this forum after hearing about how beneficial they could be and its worked wonders for me so far.

My concern, though, is questioning whether being on the forum so much (2-5 times a day) is indirectly making me think about porn somehow and still giving it some sort of power over my life? I never get urges while on this site, in fact it usually helps kill urges, but I wasn't sure if just going on the forum "casually" (like 3 times a week) would be more healthy? I hope not... either way, let me know your thoughts!

-SC

 

[Anoniem5]

To be really honest, i think not thinking about you PiEd problems, not looking on this forum etc, will make the reboot faster. Here is why.

In order to achieve good erections, you also need to be emotionally balanced. A healthy mind is needed for a healthy body and also the other way around. What I am trying to say is that being depressed and worries about your problems doesn't really solve anything. In my eyes you need to walk away from them and don't think about it. Live a happy life, and be joyful. Do what you have to do, don't PMO but don't worry and think about it either. Just be happy

 

[melancholy king]

well I would say it depends, if your on here all the time then it may very well become an addiction in itself, however I think being on here every once in a while is good because a) it gives you a place to cent b) it can provide important information to help you reboot and c) you can help others quit PMO.

nothing in life is 100% good, there's always a little bit of bad in everything, the question though is whether this site does more good than bad, and I think overwhelmingly it does.

 

[Maxt321]

I agree 100%, I noticed that my libido came back quickly when I just forgot about this site, and stopped worrying and just went on with my life (avoiding pmo obviously). Although I do think it's important to get educated, and these forums are the best way to do that. I believe for the best results in your reboot, get very educated so you know what your doing and then stop going on this website and just let your body heal without thinking about your reboot every day