Blue Bird,
Thanks for reaching out. I honestly posted that last post a few months ago and for whatever reason got away from the sight.... I recently had some success with setting better parameters but still not out of the woods. I have pmo'd 3x in past 2 months. Better but not gone. The good news is going through so much makes you a little stronger every time you come back from despair. I am seeing a counselor again and have tremendous support from my fiance. My issue with the counselor is that they want you to not feel so guilty and to masturbate without porn almost saying it is normal which I believe. The problem is the issues and memory and neurological crap is still in my tissues. I just think I have to stick to my guns and stay abstinent at least for now (no time frame) the 90 day thing is a good goal but everyone is different. the counslor agrees that we are going to take it under my terms for now and talk out issue as to WHY I went tdown this path. I started a journal and will post my counter soon. Hope you are all well.