So I got myself into heated argument with husband about porn. I don't think he gets it. He told me he doesn't watch it because it hurts me. He is going to leave us for a year due to his job next year and he said he might watch porn because he has his urges. I am not gonna lie I got really mad because it makes me angry how stupid he is about his porn addiction. It makes me feel like I am just wasting my time in this marriage. I know lost of people on this forum who successfully completed their reboots. I just don't understand how a guy who didn't see any porn movie for over 100 days suddenly says shit like that? There is a lot of things that bothers me about this, it seems like people who go through reboot are changing and he is just one angry dickhead. Seems like some men are loving towards their spouses or girlfriends and in my marriage everything goes to shit. We can't talk about porn because he just doesn't know what to say or gets angry. We did good for first few months but now I feel like 2 strangers living in the house. Not to mention that our sex is so shitty for about 6 months now and it seems like it only last like 5 minutes. Perhaps, I am might be more needy but we never done foreplay because he doesn't know how to do it. I was hoping that after year everything c will change and he will get better but it seems like everything goes wrong lately. Any advice how to stop myself going crazy and fixing our marriage?