Derrickrose1989
Member
I have been diagnosed with pied by my sex therapist two weeks ago. I have been rebooting for two weeks. I didnt have sex, watch porn and masturbate during tht time. Today i was in my third session with him and he wants me to find to partner to do focus on those things :
* Sensate focus
*first few weeks couples take turn non genital touching establishing an awareness of sensation.
* person touching does so on basis of what interest them or person being touched can guide.
Also he wants me to do :
Erotic bath with a partner, learn the fantasize (masturbating without porn), blind taste and massage.
He said i can do kissing, massaging, cuddling, touching the booty but cannot do penetration neither recieving an oral sex. He also told me i can masturbate as many as possible without porn just fantasize something turns me on. What do you guys think about that ? Is that how rewire with the partner supposed to be ? Also is masturbating without the porn is okay during reboot ? I need everybodys opinions about it. Thank you.
* Sensate focus
*first few weeks couples take turn non genital touching establishing an awareness of sensation.
* person touching does so on basis of what interest them or person being touched can guide.
Also he wants me to do :
Erotic bath with a partner, learn the fantasize (masturbating without porn), blind taste and massage.
He said i can do kissing, massaging, cuddling, touching the booty but cannot do penetration neither recieving an oral sex. He also told me i can masturbate as many as possible without porn just fantasize something turns me on. What do you guys think about that ? Is that how rewire with the partner supposed to be ? Also is masturbating without the porn is okay during reboot ? I need everybodys opinions about it. Thank you.