Relapsed

Un1111

Active Member
Well after being free from porn since October 2014 I have relapsed and ended up binging for 2 days. I was hoping, that someone could give me someone could help me, by giving me so encouragement. I have problems with my arms, and I can not really do much, it causes me to be isolated and I hate myself. I feel tired now, probably because of the relapse and I am not sure how long that will last, that and I will have to deal with cravings for awhile. Is there any advice you could give me, to help me through this, because no doubt I have to start at square one. I would like to ask, is it normal to be desensitized to porn, even after falling back after reboot. Anyway I hope someone can give me some words of encouragement.
 

Pr3c1se

Well-Known Member
You can never alter the past you can only learn from it.  Don't be so hard on yourself.  You did incredible.. Not PMOing since october of last year?!  There are many on this forum that wish they could make it that long.  Great job!  Don't be so hard on yourself.  Relapses happen.  It's not your job to get down from them, but it IS YOUR JOB TO LEARN FROM THEM and grow. 
 

Un1111

Active Member
Is it actually possible to fully recover, especially because of such hard core material, which I will not go into detail, because of how bad it was. Because it has such drastic changes to your brain, that it worries me. I just do not thing I can get my libido back. I have used death grip, while watch serious content for hours. So I do not know if it is possible or not. That and it is hentai, which is a lot different from regular porn, because of how unrealistic it is.
 

Pr3c1se

Well-Known Member
You can heal, just focus on your reboot.  Let the rest work itself out naturally. 

I've heard coconut oil is good to put on your cock.
 

Fappy

Respected Member
Any type of porn, no matter how "realistic" it is, will fuck you up. Dont try to justify what you watch just STOP!
Yeah i heard coconut oil is beneficial. But the best thing for your cock is to stop beating the shit out of it to porn!
 
I ama woman addicted to porn and I just want to say that I really admire you and all the other guys on here for what you are doing. It must be especially challenging for men to come to the decision to stop watching porn because for you you are going against the culture and what our society says men should be doing, our society pretty much encourages men to partake in it. You all are doing something amazing by going against that and realizing that the addiction is harming you. And going pretty much a full year without watching it is incredible! You are so strong! Myself I have only gone a month without relapsing at this point, but discovering this forum I think will be very helpful to me in the future. You made it a year and you can do it again, your little slip up is so inconsequential compared to how long you went. You can stop again and you are amazing for doing so!
 
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