Being arroused by real people around you.

[Anoniem5]

I am 17 years old with some porn induced problemsand I have this question running through my mind all the time.
So I remember when I wasn't really that long into porn (let's say untill the age of 15) I would feel really arroused when someone with big boobs came and sit next to me for example. I would also fantasize about people's bodies I knew in real life and it would make me feel really arroused.

Now I am aware of the fact that this is really normal, but since I got the porn related problems, I also started to notice that things in real don't arrouse me at all. Sure if someone has a hot ass or something it would definitely take my attention, but it doesn't gave that same kick like it did 2 years ago. Now my question is: Is this part of ageing or is this a common thing among the rebooters?

I feel like people around me are way more excited by a hot body than I am. My friends are all like: damn look at that ass! I would be more like, yeah, so?

I like the fact I'm not objectifying women but I just want to hear what you guys think.

Sorry for my bad english btw.

 

[Numez]

porn addicts needs much bigger kick in order to feel the same as 'normal' people. we all love asses dearly, but obsessing around them and feeling so lacking (uncontrollably horny) when you see one on the street should not be the goal of the reboot.

i was pmo free for 10 months but constantly obsessing about sex, asses and erection. its better than porn but its not the most enjoyable result you can get from quitting as it creates a lot of feelings of lack and inadequacy... and it led to resetting my counter.

your counter is telling a good story! congrats

 

[nannitac]

i am 34 yo guy, from 20 till 24 yo i was addicted to porn, than to feel same arousal that porn gave me i moved to prostitutes and shemale sex addiction.
To be honest when you are are porn addicted like i was the only thing that in real life can pump same amount of dopamine in your brain are prostitutes, gangbang, shemales or any other real situation comparable to hardcore fetish situation...normal genuine sex with normal girls will be just boring since your brain learned to react to fetish porn.
To proof that porn shapes your sexual tastes i can tell you that  what i ve done with prostitutes and shemales pretty much reflects porn fetishes i was used to see when i was addicted only to porn....thanks god i never escalated to more tough fetish porn such as child, rape, animals, scat!