hans32
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Surfing the sea of Reboot nation, I am relieved there are other guys struggling with this problem to. I have a accountability buddy already and we text our progress and issues with one another, its a really helpful. So this is day one, 'again', ive been struggling with this for many years.
I first was introduced to printed media, via, my mother's copies of the 'Joy of Sex' and the follow-up edition, 'More Joy'. It was the drawings, I was hooked immediately. I was very young, maybe 6? I parussed the books repeatedly, searching for understanding. Being a gay kid, I was drawn to the pictures of me, much more than the woman. I think I had Daddy issues and was longing for a male role model to guide me perhaps. I had no adult males in my life to stand in as a father, so I was yearning for something I didn't even understand I wanted yet. The books became a browsing catalogue, learning about sexual arrousal and all the many ways to have sex with a woman. I was most interested in the men, of course, but they still were a total mystery to me, what I had then was information and pictures about how men had sex and looked when aroused, how to use their bodies etc. At that young age, there was no sexual arrousal for me yet, at least not the typw we discover in puberty or early adolescence. However sex was unfortunately something I did know about first hand, though I think that was best described as rape or molestation. So I was familiar with sex acts, but not personal sexual desires or masterbation yet. I think I might pause here. This is very revealing and I need to pace myself. Im worried that my story might trugger someone in an unhealthy way. And then there's the reality that no one would ever read this either. so I'm gonna read through more of the guidelines before I get to far into this history of mine.
I first was introduced to printed media, via, my mother's copies of the 'Joy of Sex' and the follow-up edition, 'More Joy'. It was the drawings, I was hooked immediately. I was very young, maybe 6? I parussed the books repeatedly, searching for understanding. Being a gay kid, I was drawn to the pictures of me, much more than the woman. I think I had Daddy issues and was longing for a male role model to guide me perhaps. I had no adult males in my life to stand in as a father, so I was yearning for something I didn't even understand I wanted yet. The books became a browsing catalogue, learning about sexual arrousal and all the many ways to have sex with a woman. I was most interested in the men, of course, but they still were a total mystery to me, what I had then was information and pictures about how men had sex and looked when aroused, how to use their bodies etc. At that young age, there was no sexual arrousal for me yet, at least not the typw we discover in puberty or early adolescence. However sex was unfortunately something I did know about first hand, though I think that was best described as rape or molestation. So I was familiar with sex acts, but not personal sexual desires or masterbation yet. I think I might pause here. This is very revealing and I need to pace myself. Im worried that my story might trugger someone in an unhealthy way. And then there's the reality that no one would ever read this either. so I'm gonna read through more of the guidelines before I get to far into this history of mine.