The fight to become a better version of myself

[MagicStick]

Hey Tyler just checking in on your progress!

Hang in there man. I just got sick too and my recent relapses kinda killed some good progress I had made. My flatline comes and goes along with libido. I know how you feel. I just don't feel like me right now.

As far as concentration and notes goes? Caffeine does help.

I don't take very good notes. I can usually recall information so I can't help there.

Good luck man!

 

[TylerDurden08]

Hi MagicStick!

Thanks for your answer it is very motivating everytime someone comments on my thread and wants to support me, unfortunately I drink about half a litre of coffee a day so I got pretty resistent

I have a question to you guys: I met a girl and we agreed to start something like a friendship+ and we sexted and she sent me nudes of her. Is this considered as a porn substitute and will slow down my process?

Day 24:
I notice how i get hornier day by day, it's now 7 days since i masturbated the last time, but I will stay strong!

Tyler

 

[TylerDurden08]

Day 28:

I recognize how my libido and my willpower gets back more day by day. I read the book "How To Be A 3% Man" by Corey Wayne to understand better how women are thinking and it's just all so clear to me now, what I've done wrong the last time I got rejected by a girl I really liked. To test my new gained skills I installed a dating app and it's unbelievable how much game I have now. I can really recommend it to all of you

I'm quite unsure if this dating app thing will slow down my process , because I'm often sexting and yesterday I masturbated to it without orgasm though. I hope someone can give me a answer to this.

Tyler

 

[maddscottm]

Tyler, guys who have gone through a full reboot can give a better answer on the dating app.  but i will throw in my two cents.
Start with the goal in mind.  I think what you want is to be able to get it on with a woman in the real world and enjoy sex where u r rock hard and u both enjoy yourselves. 
i will caution you that the app that lets you sext with multiple women is absolutely a bad idea.  I can tell you that from my own experience, where i turned out to be addicted to a hookup site.  Everytime i got a response from someone who wanted to hook up with me, I got  a huge shot of dopamine just like other guys get from novelty in porn.  If you hook up with that girl who sent u the naked selfies, awesome.  That's real world sex.  But if what happens is you trade hot selfies with a dozen women a day, but you are not actually banging any of them, that's just a P substitute.  Best would be to find one woman to mess with on an ongoing basis.  All I am saying is don't trade one addiction for another.  Yr brain is meant to be turned on by real women, not virtual ones, whether they come from porn, dating apps, chicks who sext, whatever.
Hang in there bro.

 

[risingagain2016]

no idea on dating app.

But masturbation might strengthen old pathway.