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Just thought I would start a new journal and give a brief background of myself. 24 year old male, first learnt about the damages porn caused 4 years ago roughly.
A month(30 days to be exact) before i turned 21. That day I turned 21 was also my first relapse, i thought to myself this was easy and I can do it easy. One
little reward now (PMO) and i'll can it. I'm starting to think about turning 25, wow and i'm still battling this.
The reason or my main motivation was my failed sexually experiences, I had ED. Now I could see a way out and all i ever wanted was to be intimate and have a girlfriend.
This reason wasn't enough as I got out of a two year + relationship a few months and still occasionally used porn during it. I was dealing with a few things in my life and we
both weren't' perfect but I really wish I got a chance at it again without porn in my life and it's affect on my brain. Good thing is I abstained enough and with some early use
of viagra was able to have sex and rewire to the real thing.
Life isn't look good and I'm stuck in the same old routine of work and living for the weekend. Worse thing is i'm relapsing consistently to porn which helps make it feel like
i'm not getting anywhere. Stupid as it to think of my day counter is one of the defining things if I'm being "successful in life" and I can be happy. I think I have made progress
in my life since then, not as much as I would like though. I don't want to be that porn zombie and lose the ability to have a full relationship with my (future) partner.
I've tried programs, read books on porn, youtube channels. Why can't i beat this addiction and move on. It sucks to be on Day 0 again.
As you've all know,bad binges hurts you emotionally and make you re-consider things in life. One thing that people who quit say is that you've got to improve your life.
I've been trying this but I guess it time to take it up a notch. Day 0 clean today. Grateful for another chance, hopefully this is the last one I need.
Time to take it up another notch, I'm going to give it all this time. No excuses. Hope together we can inspire, help and change each others lives.
"There is no passion to be found playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living" - Nelson Mandela
Just thought I would start a new journal and give a brief background of myself. 24 year old male, first learnt about the damages porn caused 4 years ago roughly.
A month(30 days to be exact) before i turned 21. That day I turned 21 was also my first relapse, i thought to myself this was easy and I can do it easy. One
little reward now (PMO) and i'll can it. I'm starting to think about turning 25, wow and i'm still battling this.
The reason or my main motivation was my failed sexually experiences, I had ED. Now I could see a way out and all i ever wanted was to be intimate and have a girlfriend.
This reason wasn't enough as I got out of a two year + relationship a few months and still occasionally used porn during it. I was dealing with a few things in my life and we
both weren't' perfect but I really wish I got a chance at it again without porn in my life and it's affect on my brain. Good thing is I abstained enough and with some early use
of viagra was able to have sex and rewire to the real thing.
Life isn't look good and I'm stuck in the same old routine of work and living for the weekend. Worse thing is i'm relapsing consistently to porn which helps make it feel like
i'm not getting anywhere. Stupid as it to think of my day counter is one of the defining things if I'm being "successful in life" and I can be happy. I think I have made progress
in my life since then, not as much as I would like though. I don't want to be that porn zombie and lose the ability to have a full relationship with my (future) partner.
I've tried programs, read books on porn, youtube channels. Why can't i beat this addiction and move on. It sucks to be on Day 0 again.
As you've all know,bad binges hurts you emotionally and make you re-consider things in life. One thing that people who quit say is that you've got to improve your life.
I've been trying this but I guess it time to take it up a notch. Day 0 clean today. Grateful for another chance, hopefully this is the last one I need.
Time to take it up another notch, I'm going to give it all this time. No excuses. Hope together we can inspire, help and change each others lives.
"There is no passion to be found playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living" - Nelson Mandela