Ontrack Man
Active Member
Hello guys, I wanted to talk about this topic that I don't see much about.
I didn't realise how much internet porn was affecting me until after years and years of daily use. I searched for more intense, forbidden material that would impact me. A lot of guys say how they escalate to gay porn, and for me it meant being able to watch aggressive material without feeling completely uncomfortable. Of course, I got used to this too and escalated to many types of gay fetishes.
In my real life, I had made a connection thinking real sex had to be similar to pornsex, and the best type of sexual encounters were those who resembled what I saw on screen, if it turned me on.
I started enjoying the attention guys gave me when they flirted with me, fantasising more and more with guys until I acted out, at 29, what I had seen for so long.
I've been with many guys since then, and even dated this one guy for more that two years. In this way, I have "come out" to friends and family letting them know that I am also interested in men, even though they have always seen me with girlfriends. Now it's really difficult for me to have sex with a woman, it doesn't seem arousing enough. I've lost interest. Of course I have PIED with women, and sometimes with guys as well.
I've been controlling my porn use fairly well for the last months, I've only relapsed a couple of times and I can achieve long streaks. The more I heal the more interest I develop in women, lately I've started to feel attraction to women again. I feel as if i've crossed a "certain line", and I will never stop losing interest in guys, although I don't think I could be happy in a long term relationship with one, I feel guys will continue to be a huge turn on for me.
This week I made out with a girl and we were getting to know each other and I told her naturally about my relationship with guys, and she said "Oh, OK, so you're bisexual". I don't usually consider myself bisexual, but I guess that would be an accurate description.
I just wanted to share that with everybody, that's my experience, it would be great to read yours as well. Take care,
OT
I didn't realise how much internet porn was affecting me until after years and years of daily use. I searched for more intense, forbidden material that would impact me. A lot of guys say how they escalate to gay porn, and for me it meant being able to watch aggressive material without feeling completely uncomfortable. Of course, I got used to this too and escalated to many types of gay fetishes.
In my real life, I had made a connection thinking real sex had to be similar to pornsex, and the best type of sexual encounters were those who resembled what I saw on screen, if it turned me on.
I started enjoying the attention guys gave me when they flirted with me, fantasising more and more with guys until I acted out, at 29, what I had seen for so long.
I've been with many guys since then, and even dated this one guy for more that two years. In this way, I have "come out" to friends and family letting them know that I am also interested in men, even though they have always seen me with girlfriends. Now it's really difficult for me to have sex with a woman, it doesn't seem arousing enough. I've lost interest. Of course I have PIED with women, and sometimes with guys as well.
I've been controlling my porn use fairly well for the last months, I've only relapsed a couple of times and I can achieve long streaks. The more I heal the more interest I develop in women, lately I've started to feel attraction to women again. I feel as if i've crossed a "certain line", and I will never stop losing interest in guys, although I don't think I could be happy in a long term relationship with one, I feel guys will continue to be a huge turn on for me.
This week I made out with a girl and we were getting to know each other and I told her naturally about my relationship with guys, and she said "Oh, OK, so you're bisexual". I don't usually consider myself bisexual, but I guess that would be an accurate description.
I just wanted to share that with everybody, that's my experience, it would be great to read yours as well. Take care,
OT