Is porn ruining your sex life?

Bibbity

Bibbity

Active Member
This is a great video I thought I would share.  Amazing insight on how to be a great lover after porn.  There might be some triggering images on the bar on the side (annoying ads for other vids) so please do not watch if you don't think you can handle it!

Also this guy is apparently known for his PUA tactics so if you don't ascribe to that lifestyle, take the good advice and leave the rest.

http://youtu.be/rxl3XRmvrPk
 
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Mart71

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You are aware, that this comes right out of the pick-up-artist scene, right? Those guys specialize in telling women what they want to hear, really good manipulators. Check out the other uploads on that channel and learn about "seduction" and "closing" and "day game" and other ego masturbation for guys.

I haven't watched the video yet, since it comes out of a part of society I usually stay away from. Just saying.
 
Bibbity

Bibbity

Active Member
Mart71 said:
You are aware, that this comes right out of the pick-up-artist scene, right? Those guys specialize in telling women what they want to hear, really good manipulators. Check out the other uploads on that channel and learn about "seduction" and "closing" and "day game" and other ego masturbation for guys.

I haven't watched the video yet, since it comes out of a part of society I usually stay away from. Just saying.
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I had no idea Mart71.  I have never watched any of the other ones and only judged this video.  I thought it had some useful info and I never once got a PUA vibe....although I will admit that I'm not too familiar with it.  I know most PUA is about self improvement to attract women but again I'm not exactly familiar.

Maybe you could watch it and give me feedback on whether or not you think its inappropriate?
 
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Mart71

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I have watched it and just seeing it isolated and out of the context it is ment to be seen in, it is not inappropriate as far as I am concerned.

However, this guy is using this as a tool to improve the skills of his little Don Juans he trains. He even talks about applying it in his seminars, which are about training how to pick up women. And the majority of guys getting this kind of training are not looking for a meaningful relationship. They are the guys we are talking about in the objectifying women thread. Just listen to him being all proud of his skills in bed - and the women coming back to him for that.

The message is okay, but I am doubtful about the intentions of the messenger. But we never shoot the messenger. >_<
 
marfap

marfap

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Without going down the PUA rabbit hole. Agreed some of the PUA communities are as previously described and just about getting laid, manipulation of insecure women etc.... 

But others are about becoming the best man on the inside and the outside, this does include knowing how to approach and talk to the opposite sex etc.... These skills all my friends possessed naturally and I did not (this is in part why I used so much porn).
I now have worked a lot on these skills and this why I am now into NOFAP......


I came to this site after listening to an "Art of Charm" podcast with Gary Wilson (Your brain on porn). The "Art of Charm" is in part about how to get on the opposite sex but through becoming the best version of you, that you can be.

PS Myself I am only interested in deeper connections with women rather than just the superficial nature of some PUA forums.
 
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