Hi guys.
I'm wondering if my unability to love my GFs is related to my porn addiction.
This is the second time this year that I get into a relationship, and 2 months in, I still can't feel "in love".
When we're walking in the streets I can't help but desire other women. Or if one day she doesn't look as sexy, I feel like i'm losing attraction. I know how fucked up this sounds, and I know relationships are much more than just physical appearance and sex.
Even though I really appreciate this girl, I just don't feel like i'm able to really connect with her and to love her the way she deserves to be loved.
When we are away for a few days, and I start missing her, I can't really tell if I'm missing all the affection, the cuddling, the touching or if i'm really missing "her".
I'm gonna have to do the mature thing this week and end the relationship. I think dealing with my reboot while having to take care of my girlfriend is just too hard and complicated.
Has anyone here felt the same thing? Even though you really like a girl and love spending time with her, you can't feel in Love?
I'm guessing this is one of the symptoms of porn addiction. Numbed emotions, numbed feelings and pleasure response...
It's a sad thing having a girl love you and not being able to appreciate or feel that love, and especially not being able to love her back. I hope this will change with time...
I'm wondering if my unability to love my GFs is related to my porn addiction.
This is the second time this year that I get into a relationship, and 2 months in, I still can't feel "in love".
When we're walking in the streets I can't help but desire other women. Or if one day she doesn't look as sexy, I feel like i'm losing attraction. I know how fucked up this sounds, and I know relationships are much more than just physical appearance and sex.
Even though I really appreciate this girl, I just don't feel like i'm able to really connect with her and to love her the way she deserves to be loved.
When we are away for a few days, and I start missing her, I can't really tell if I'm missing all the affection, the cuddling, the touching or if i'm really missing "her".
I'm gonna have to do the mature thing this week and end the relationship. I think dealing with my reboot while having to take care of my girlfriend is just too hard and complicated.
Has anyone here felt the same thing? Even though you really like a girl and love spending time with her, you can't feel in Love?
I'm guessing this is one of the symptoms of porn addiction. Numbed emotions, numbed feelings and pleasure response...
It's a sad thing having a girl love you and not being able to appreciate or feel that love, and especially not being able to love her back. I hope this will change with time...