Akainu
Member
Hello guys.
I'm 22 years old from Sweden.
What is my problem?
I can't get a hard boner anymore unless I jack off to porn
Long story short
I don't know if porn is the problem or not. But I've watched it since I was 12. Very often. I could jack off up to 8 times a day back then. Then it became 2 times a week... The recent 3 years I've realized I have difficulties getting something that was so easy to get before. A hard boner. Now it just becomes like a varm hot dog. I can't have sex with a condom on. And without condom I can only do it one time and then it would be impossible to get it hard again. I thought the problem was alcohol or something, but then this made more sense to me. Because the way I jack off, it can't be good for my brain. It's like drugs or a very bad eating habit. I watch porn and jack off even though I'm not even horny, only to achieve that orgasm feeling, especially during stressed situations. This simply can't be good in the long run. I can't believe I didn't figure this out earlier. I really hope it's possible to right my wrongs.
WHAT is My Goal?
It's mainly to be able to get those easily obtained hard as steel boners again. For example, I kiss a girl and bam, there it is. I miss them so much. It's embarrassing to not have them anymore when I'm with a girl.
HOW will I get there?
By stop watching porn completely. Stop fantasizing about porn and sex as much as possible. Stop mausterbating.
WHEN?
Starting from now. Actually I'm on day 5 as Im writing this. I don't know for sure how long yet. But as long as it takes to heal. Whatever it takes, I'll do it.
Objectives
One week
Half of a month
One month
One and a half month
Two months
I can do this!
I'm 22 years old from Sweden.
What is my problem?
I can't get a hard boner anymore unless I jack off to porn
Long story short
I don't know if porn is the problem or not. But I've watched it since I was 12. Very often. I could jack off up to 8 times a day back then. Then it became 2 times a week... The recent 3 years I've realized I have difficulties getting something that was so easy to get before. A hard boner. Now it just becomes like a varm hot dog. I can't have sex with a condom on. And without condom I can only do it one time and then it would be impossible to get it hard again. I thought the problem was alcohol or something, but then this made more sense to me. Because the way I jack off, it can't be good for my brain. It's like drugs or a very bad eating habit. I watch porn and jack off even though I'm not even horny, only to achieve that orgasm feeling, especially during stressed situations. This simply can't be good in the long run. I can't believe I didn't figure this out earlier. I really hope it's possible to right my wrongs.
WHAT is My Goal?
It's mainly to be able to get those easily obtained hard as steel boners again. For example, I kiss a girl and bam, there it is. I miss them so much. It's embarrassing to not have them anymore when I'm with a girl.
HOW will I get there?
By stop watching porn completely. Stop fantasizing about porn and sex as much as possible. Stop mausterbating.
WHEN?
Starting from now. Actually I'm on day 5 as Im writing this. I don't know for sure how long yet. But as long as it takes to heal. Whatever it takes, I'll do it.
Objectives
Half of a month
One month
One and a half month
Two months
I can do this!