desperate for a new life - vol. 2

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italianwanker

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The first 35 days without PMO (with P I mean every image that can arous me, like women working out, etc) are gone.

It is definitely my new record and I am proud of it.

Lately I want to post a few important considerations about this new period.
 
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italianwanker

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ok. here I am  ;)

This my second phase of my rebooting.

From tomorrow (june 1) I want to completely avoid even Mo's for 30 days. According to someone this could fast my recovery and,
more important I want to prove to myself that I am able to do that.  :'(

Anyway the reason of this post is mainly one: I want to share my experience in phase 1 of my rebooting which lasted 35 days.
I will divide my story in few significants points that you might find interesting.  ;)

I have almost doubled my previous record which was a bit over 20 days, altough it wasn't a serious attempt like this one;

To be honest the urges to fap with porn or porn substitutes were less strong than expected. So far I Have managed it quite easily;

So far I didn't experience a dead dick... maybe the first week, so I could say I didn't have a real flatline;

After a week or so I noticed less social anxiety... I feel more confident when speaking with people, especially girls  8), altough I don't feel so confident to approach one at the moment;  ::)

I am more attracted to real women, even if they aren't beautiful;

I feel more confident in general... let's say that I find easier to set a goal and try to reach it (for example I want to quit alcohol as well.. I don't want to do it for a year... it's another artificial ''happiness'' that costs also quite a shitload of money).
 
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TiramiSu

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You are hilarious; "I am more attracted to real women, even if they aren't beautiful; "

This statement made me laugh for the whole day. but it is true....I can so relate to your experiences....I have also stopped moing...it is useless....

keep up your efforts...
 
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italianwanker

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ah ah that's true  ;) another problem with those images/videos is that we get so used to perfect women that represent less than 1% of real women... and this is another way to disconnect from reality  :-[

about moing I don't know if I agree... I mean it is a very small time involved (usually 10 minutes or so) and if one doesn't have a partner he must ejaculate... in order to keep your prostate/testicles/wiener trained and healthy. you probably need to masturbate a couple of times per week.

Btw this is a particular situation and since many people suggest avoiding mo during this phase I want so see if I can benefit from this or not. The motivation is that being fap reluctant ( ;D) could speed up your reboot... I don't know if it is correct or not... But I am sure that trying wouldn't hurt me so I gonna try for the month of June.
 
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TiramiSu

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Moing/Sex with a partner is a good thing.  Everything that is real should be done.  and if you mo, I read a book that said use some oil and some nice music, focus on breathing and just massaging yourself. That way we get to know our body better.

I can only say that this month was really good without stimulation...I liked it. I felt more sober. and you are totally right. Women become more attractive. Not every women is 90 60 90. Also we are also not perfect - at least not always:)
 
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italianwanker

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yeah that's true. I also noticed that I feel more ''powerful'' when I make eye contact  8)

I don't know when it will be time to approach a real girl... It's a long time that I don't do that and I want
to feel a bit more confident altough my selfconfidence has improved during these 40 days without porn.

I also noticed more spontaneus erections... Did it happen to you?
 
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TiramiSu

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Yep. in the mornings. It is strong as metal:)

but dont wait for too long with the ladies...it is all statistics..the more you approach  the more you are successful...eventually there is one who says yes....
 
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italianwanker

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absolutely true. and I guess there is not a huge competition because most males are pmoing like there is no tomorrow  ;D

I want to wait just a little bit but I have to try soon... since I have lost a huge amount of time jerking off with
porn. when I think of it I would punch myself.  :mad:
 
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