I know its very hard to open up things like this, but screw it here goes:
As far as memories go, I think I started at age 12, watching Hentai. But because my brain wanted more, it started looking for more intense like porn. I was 13 or 14 when I started and at first, I never really considered what it was doing to me. I was either shocked on what I saw or maybe because I liked the feeling of O after M. But then I realized my habit was spiraling out of control and while I started with straight porn, next thing I know I was watching gay porn probably at age 19. I am now 23 and that's where I decided I needed to stop and change things.
Because I watched gay porn, it made me really confused as to who I like. Initially, I liked girls and yeah I had fantasies of being married to a wife and have kids with her but things got really screwed when gay porn entered my life. I don't know if I'm just objectifying men because my brain wants to watch gay porn or if I really like boys? Argh! This is so frustrating! I've never dated anyone before due to many reasons: I'm fat, shy, and had been a victim of bullying. So imagine the dislike I have for talking to people - let alone trust them because of my bullied past.
I wish porn never entered my life at all so there won't be any confusions about this! I still feel strongly the want to have a wife and kids but how do I know if that's what I really want when gay porn is messing with my head?
Things might have been easy if I was asexual since birth till the day I die... :'(
As far as memories go, I think I started at age 12, watching Hentai. But because my brain wanted more, it started looking for more intense like porn. I was 13 or 14 when I started and at first, I never really considered what it was doing to me. I was either shocked on what I saw or maybe because I liked the feeling of O after M. But then I realized my habit was spiraling out of control and while I started with straight porn, next thing I know I was watching gay porn probably at age 19. I am now 23 and that's where I decided I needed to stop and change things.
Because I watched gay porn, it made me really confused as to who I like. Initially, I liked girls and yeah I had fantasies of being married to a wife and have kids with her but things got really screwed when gay porn entered my life. I don't know if I'm just objectifying men because my brain wants to watch gay porn or if I really like boys? Argh! This is so frustrating! I've never dated anyone before due to many reasons: I'm fat, shy, and had been a victim of bullying. So imagine the dislike I have for talking to people - let alone trust them because of my bullied past.
I wish porn never entered my life at all so there won't be any confusions about this! I still feel strongly the want to have a wife and kids but how do I know if that's what I really want when gay porn is messing with my head?
Things might have been easy if I was asexual since birth till the day I die... :'(