Hello everyone. I am 15 and I have been watching porn since I was 12, and I have definitely noticed its effect on me. After reviewing this site as well as a few others, I have decided to reboot, although I have a few questions.
1.) Is it ok to masturbate to my imagination? You guys said that as long as you aren't getting off to artificial things (i.e. Porn, erotic stories, even Facebook photos, etc.), it's fine. But does imagination count as artificial?
2.) Is it still ok to fantasize? As in, when I am lying in bed or sitting in the car, would it set me back to play out sexual scenarios similar to porn in my head and become aroused by them?
3.) I keep hearing talk of 'porn induced fetishes.' I am what is known as a kinky bastard. I have a multitude of kinks and fetishes, some more taboo and some less (nothing bad, like pedophilia), but unlike most others, I am not disgusted or ashamed of these attractions. In fact, I very much enjoy having them and I don't want them to go away. I just find that they "spice things up," for lack of a better term. Although I seriously doubt that ALL of them are porn induced, because some of them I have found arousing since as early as I can remember, and I never really started out watching normal porn. In my 3+ years of watching porn nearly daily, I have never watched normal porn more than 5 times (and by normal, I mean lesbians, not heterosexual intercourse). I started out with the kinky stuff, and all my other attractions just sort of built from there. I don't know whether this is due to me being exposed to new ideas that I had never thought of before or me building up a tolerance, or both. Most lf my fetishes I really don't want to lose (I have very recently started watching shemale porn. I'd like to get rid of that, but that's really the only one). I suppose my question is this: would you say that, for me, it is likely that I will lose most of my fetishes?
1.) Is it ok to masturbate to my imagination? You guys said that as long as you aren't getting off to artificial things (i.e. Porn, erotic stories, even Facebook photos, etc.), it's fine. But does imagination count as artificial?
2.) Is it still ok to fantasize? As in, when I am lying in bed or sitting in the car, would it set me back to play out sexual scenarios similar to porn in my head and become aroused by them?
3.) I keep hearing talk of 'porn induced fetishes.' I am what is known as a kinky bastard. I have a multitude of kinks and fetishes, some more taboo and some less (nothing bad, like pedophilia), but unlike most others, I am not disgusted or ashamed of these attractions. In fact, I very much enjoy having them and I don't want them to go away. I just find that they "spice things up," for lack of a better term. Although I seriously doubt that ALL of them are porn induced, because some of them I have found arousing since as early as I can remember, and I never really started out watching normal porn. In my 3+ years of watching porn nearly daily, I have never watched normal porn more than 5 times (and by normal, I mean lesbians, not heterosexual intercourse). I started out with the kinky stuff, and all my other attractions just sort of built from there. I don't know whether this is due to me being exposed to new ideas that I had never thought of before or me building up a tolerance, or both. Most lf my fetishes I really don't want to lose (I have very recently started watching shemale porn. I'd like to get rid of that, but that's really the only one). I suppose my question is this: would you say that, for me, it is likely that I will lose most of my fetishes?
