feeling sexually dead
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willtochange
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I feel the same way at the moment, we have to keep pushing. I think this is what flatline is.
lookingahead
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So you're saying that you no longer feel anything to women on a screen, but when you feel human touch, you get triggered? Sounds like you're just unlearning your response to porn, and relearning your response to real touch. Isn't that just recovery?
Yes normal sex doesn't excite you anymore. Your mind wants more exciting stuff which we don't find in real woman. By "exciting" doesn't mean it's good. It means hardcore. We will feel great seeing a women getting physically abused yet we have our own mother who always is a sign of feminism in our life who we will love very much. We are not cruel being. Our brain and s
Society has made us this way. You are sexually dead but that's just very temporary. Brain is plastic. Your brain neurons are connected in completely different manner. So you need to stop watching P so you will starting feeling the reality and your neural connections to sane mode.
Society has made us this way. You are sexually dead but that's just very temporary. Brain is plastic. Your brain neurons are connected in completely different manner. So you need to stop watching P so you will starting feeling the reality and your neural connections to sane mode.
E45
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aboodos94, I had this exact experience last night. I watched a film, and it had a topless woman in it (absolutely not needed to advance the plot!). I looked at her and felt nothing. Frankly, I was offended that the director thought he needed to add this to a film, to make it somehow better. I was actually sad.
I guess I am thinking this way because I have given up porn, over 5 months ago now. I feel able to see nudity in the media for what it is - shameful. Also, I suppose, this is very soft softcore, not porn at all. I've seen too much hardcore.
However, yes I am surprised that I don't feel aroused, now I've rebooted, because that is how my body used to react, decades ago. I think I am just being objective/analytical nowadays because I am more mature, and have learned from my experiences.
During my reboot I often described how I felt as "numb". Like your topic choice here: "sexually dead". I did feel a part of me was dead or numb. It was not nice. But we have to go through that stage in order to heal.
I definitely am having correct feelings when seeing real women doing real things. Movies are nothing like real life, as we know!
aboodos94, I guess you need to reboot for longer. I am still going too.
I guess I am thinking this way because I have given up porn, over 5 months ago now. I feel able to see nudity in the media for what it is - shameful. Also, I suppose, this is very soft softcore, not porn at all. I've seen too much hardcore.
However, yes I am surprised that I don't feel aroused, now I've rebooted, because that is how my body used to react, decades ago. I think I am just being objective/analytical nowadays because I am more mature, and have learned from my experiences.
During my reboot I often described how I felt as "numb". Like your topic choice here: "sexually dead". I did feel a part of me was dead or numb. It was not nice. But we have to go through that stage in order to heal.
I definitely am having correct feelings when seeing real women doing real things. Movies are nothing like real life, as we know!
aboodos94, I guess you need to reboot for longer. I am still going too.