Wow 3 weeks no porn fixed my ED

I really cant thank you guys enough
I'm 27 with two kids. I went from having sex two - three times a day with my wife one day, to literally limp the next day.
I use to watch porn religiously. I work from home so that didnt help. I would mast to it when my wife left for work, at lunch time and would usually wait for her to go to bed and bust another one off watching porn before I fell asleep.
About three weeks ago, while I was having sex my conda just went limp. I though this was a one off, blaming it on tiredness etc. Next morning same thing... I tried again that night with my wife and couldn't hold a 70% erection for more then five minutes. Even a blow job did nothing for me. During sex if I changed position my erection would go from 70% to 40%. Couldnt ejaculate. This obviously scared me so I started googling ED and low testosterone. I cam across this site and knew instantly it was very likely due to my porn addiction.

I realized after reading through the symptoms on this site that lately when having sex with my wife, I was trying to fuck her like they did in the porn clips I was watching. After reading through this site, I stopped watching porn three weeks ago. I was still trying to have sex every morning and evening with my soft erection and wasnt able to cum.
Last night I'm lying in bed with my wife and were kissing each other and feeling each other up with no intention of having sex then BOOM. my conda's back up and running 100%. When youre healed, its hard to explain but you view sex differently (well back to how you viewed it before your porn addiction) I was actually making love to my wife instead of fucking her like they do in the porn movies I would watch.. hard and fast. I came and still had an erection for another five minutes. We lay in bed with a huge smile on my face then went at it again half an hour later.

I know im cured. I woke up this morning with my usual hard on. My mindset has switched from porn to sex with my wife. its hard to explain although you will know the mind state when it happens to you :)

I just wanted to say thank you to who ever owns this site for the insight. You're THE MAN!!!
 

mccrayj

Member
I'm the same age as you and even though I dont have ED I've had the porn addiction for long time too. You stop porn use, stop thinking you're going to fuck your wife, g/f, whatever like they do in porn and just make love to her, and healing will come back.

 

Vincent

Active Member
thanks for sharing. Your stroy gave me more conficence! I think i will do that, too.
Its just like in the "don Jon" movie with Gordon-Levitt. Many of us guys have lost track and do not know how to make love anymore. It is considered manly if you fuck the shit out of a woman instead of making love. I for my part think to have never really understood what real sex is like - because I just followed examples from the vids.
I am eager to see how this will change!

thanks again for sharing
 
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