Married with children
Member
Time to tell my story. It do seem to be slightly different and might be worth reading. My porn history probably goes back 30 years, from finding my fathers German porn mags.
I am married with kids and has a well functioning sex life with my wife. I always want more sex than her... And that has been my excuse. She even approves it to a certain extent. 'Go watch a movie and let me sleep ' As internet porn improved I increased my use and watched porn almost every day...after everyone had gone to sleep. Certainly I have escalated but not to anything extreme. Girls-lesbian-Asian-light bondage. Everything that looks painfull I shy away from and I cannot understand people's fascination in anal sex.
Sex has not been as good as it can be and performance anxiety leads to short sessions, I'm afraid to loose my erection.
3 weeks ago I watched "The Great Porn Experiment" and it all came together. I stopped my porn use and have not watched porn since. 4 weeks...so maybe not so impressive.
I have not seen any positive signs yet, just frustration. But are confident this is crucial to save my sex life. Most important I want to restore my sex life with my wife to its former glory. I think this is fully possible if I can get my brain off porn!
I am married with kids and has a well functioning sex life with my wife. I always want more sex than her... And that has been my excuse. She even approves it to a certain extent. 'Go watch a movie and let me sleep ' As internet porn improved I increased my use and watched porn almost every day...after everyone had gone to sleep. Certainly I have escalated but not to anything extreme. Girls-lesbian-Asian-light bondage. Everything that looks painfull I shy away from and I cannot understand people's fascination in anal sex.
Sex has not been as good as it can be and performance anxiety leads to short sessions, I'm afraid to loose my erection.
3 weeks ago I watched "The Great Porn Experiment" and it all came together. I stopped my porn use and have not watched porn since. 4 weeks...so maybe not so impressive.
I have not seen any positive signs yet, just frustration. But are confident this is crucial to save my sex life. Most important I want to restore my sex life with my wife to its former glory. I think this is fully possible if I can get my brain off porn!