Recent content by Flattofine

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    Software and Technology Tools to make using more difficult

    Thanks Leopold - I have thought about using that and it sounds like it might work for me too. Totally agree that FB and IG are part of the problem! I am going to check it out!
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    Software and Technology Tools to make using more difficult

    Thanks PowerCycling- I will do some research and check that out! Flat
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    Software and Technology Tools to make using more difficult

    Hi All, I wanted to get some suggestions on apps and software to make it hard for me to access porn on my devices. I have an Iphone 6 and a Chromebook. I currently have safe search turned on on the Iphone 6 and screentime is locked out with a password which I do not know. This seems to work...
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    Thoughts are like birds

    Martin Luther said, “You cannot keep birds from flying over your head but you can keep them from building a nest in your hair.” You can't keep the Devil from suggesting thoughts, but you can choose not to dwell or act on them. And so it is with thoughts of porn. Lusting after that beautiful...
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    New year, new beginning

    Great work 50in22! Love what Hannibal said. I have found different days to be a challenge...day three and four are tough and then I do OK for a while until some stress comes along. My downfall is always...oh one little peak can't hurt. Even looking at Instagram with fully clothed girls...
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    A new start

    Great work Hannibal- keep it up! Sounds like you might be like me...using porn as a stress reliever when things get tough. Keep in mind it is really increases stress rather than relieving stress.
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    Rock Bottom...

    Hey- I have done the whole anti-depressant thing and I don't think it will help. The side effects are no fun and the efficacy of the effect while it helps some is not too high. Let me suggest Dr. David Burns... he is a cognitive therapist with tools for overcoming addictions and bad habits...
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    I need help

    Hey - just because you look at porn does not make you a bad person. It's just an extremely well designed trap that you fall into. It plays on one of our most basic needs and then traps us. Believe me, I have beat myself up over it for years and that doesn't help. Let me suggest you check out...
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    Just blew it

    Just a quick update Back on the wagon and under control for the last week or so. Thanks or all of the kind words and encouragement !
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    Just blew it

    Excellent post Escape!
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    Just blew it

    Thanks Carl- I can tell such a difference when I am on the wagon...better concentration, more energy etc!
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    Just blew it

    Thanks Big Dog - hope it helps!
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    Just blew it

    Thank you JC - I will check out that post!
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    Just blew it

    Thank you Phineas - nice to meet you!
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    Just blew it

    In the vein of thinking above, I listened to a great podcast at https://feelinggood.com/list-of-feeling-good-podcasts/ The topic is how to defeat bad habits and addictions from a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy point of view. Going to implement their process. If anyone is interested, to the...
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