Recent content by AAron79

It's been several days since my last post, and i am happy to say no PMO at all still. My wife and i have been binging on any and all info we can get our hands on. We bought the Gary Wilson book, Your Brain On Porn, we got a Sue Johnson Book. We've been listening to podcasts together and...

Actually I feel really lucky. She has been incredibly patient and the ED i was experiencing is all but gone for now. I expect to have some flat line issues in the future, but she has been more than understanding. I really appreciate the advice. We started out with cuddling for a week or so...

Didn't mean to post that short one for day 19. Been out enjoying the weather in between the rain storms. Spending s lot more time getting back to the things I enjoy and doing things with the wife that she enjoys. Haven't had any real urges lately. Not too sure about the therapy. It's like i...

19 days in and so far so good.

Day 16 is almost at a close. Had some flatline issues last night. My wife was in the mood, and i was too, up until time for bed. I let her down miserably. We discussed it today. It is a trigger for her when things are going that direction and I get tired and can't perform. Not going to lie. My...

We've made some great strides this weekend. I recommend you and your wife look up some of Sue Johnson's stuff. My wife has started reading her books and watching her videos. Seems to be helping. Hang in there.

Second therapy session was today. It was good. Still in the early stages and working towards a path forward. Came home to my wife a little depressed. What I did to her has really broken a lot of her spirit and destroyed her self esteem. I'm owning it now and trying to make amends. I really had...

Day 11. No struggles so far, and since first thing in the morning is my normal routine, i believe I'll be ok. Sitting in the parking lot of my therapists office getting ready to head in for my first session. Kind of awkward, but I can't wait to get through this. Well, time to go.

Day 10 today gents. Had an amazing weekend. Took a short road trip and got to see some sights. Have all but completely disconnected from my phone. This forum, learning Spanish on Duolingo, and a chess game i like to play are all i do on it anymore. Have content blocking software installed and...

Congrats on the self realization today. It can be rough to ask why instead of giving in. Glad to hear your still fighting, 41 days is inspiring. I'm on day 10 now and this makes me feel like it's possible.

Yep, KC area

Decided to take s little trip this weekend with my wife. Booked a room at the base of the Arch. Had a great road trip on the way here. Listened to some Porn addiction podcasts and switched it up with some music and had some amazing conversations along the way. The healing has truly begun.

Hello everyone! Day 7. Came home from work and my wife had made me a 1 week sobriety chip. It sounds a little goofy, but it made me weak. She has really been diving into this stuff as much or maybe even more than i have. She has been watching videos this afternoon since she got home earlier than...

Thank you! I really hope so!

Thanks man, these are the things I need to hear. It's been tough but every day does get a little better.