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So I have been on this site for quite awhile.  It was about 1 month from 4 years ago when my wife discovered the depth and perversion of my porn addiction.  It's been a long road for both of us but I believe we have grown from it.  I think it was her that found this site.  What a life saver for...

Hi guys, I thought that I had made it!  I went about 4 years without a relapse,  but here I am.  I believe I have learned a lot,  as well as my spouse during these 4 years.  I am ashamed to say that I need a lot more growth.  I wish I had just admitted to her about my relapse,  and then when she...

So I've decided to start a new journal for myself.  Although I'm a porn addict and always will be I'm coming to realize I have another character flaw that has a awfully close feeling to an addiction.  That monster is my self absorbed way of life.  Its inherent in me,  been here my whole life. ...

I heard this at the local SAA meeting and thought I'd share it with you guys: Autobiography in Five Short Chapters By Portia Nelson I I walk down the street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk I fall in. I am lost ... I am helpless. It isn't my fault. It takes me forever to find a way out...

So I've been recently contemplating this.  I'm not exactly sure why it's been consuming so much brain space recently but I thought I'd share my thoughts.  My SO has compared my PA to a bit of sociopathy.  At first I didn't know how to take it,  my perception of a sociopath is kinda scary.  But I...

So I'm past my 90 day reboot.  And I've been really pondering what life is,  after D-day and living with this lifelong addiction.  My perspective is from one who has a SO,  so I guess that's where I'm coming from. I still have PIED.  It comes and it goes,  but it's always there.  Stress, ...

So somehow I accidentally changed what I think is the resolution on this forum just for my computer.  The font is so small I can barely read it now.  Anyone know how to change the resolution for this forum viewing?  I can't figure out how to fix it.  All other web pages display just like...

I'm sorry to post on the Partners of Rebooters but I am wanting to start a thread on what support is to you guys.  I'm wanting to know what us as PAs can do support and build up our partners.  I apologize if this has already been beat to death or if there's already threads with all this. My SO...

Today is my 2 weeks anniversary of my reboot.  It feels amazing to be on this journey. So for a little back story.  I'm sure my story is similar to many guys.  I started at an early age ( 10-11 I think) with womens undies ads and such.  Once the internet came about things changed though.  As a...