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Hi all I've been here before. For those of you who are new: I'm 40, British, married with two children. I have had a long-term issue with using chat rooms, and a lesser (but connected) issue with pornography. I have been three months, six months, eight months clean, but fell off the wagon in...

Your wife finding out? Prison? Losing your job? Never seeing your kids again? Never having a meaningful relationship again? Or maybe just finding a greater joy than porn? What would it take?

There's been quite a lot of misogynistic language on here recently. People describing porn actresses as filthy sluts and so on. Or saying that women on Tinder all have STDs. These are people's daughters, sisters, loved ones. Nurturing a hatred of women as part of your reboot is the dictionary...

Hi all I'm on day 23 of my latest reboot (after having got myself dragged back in after a 150+ day streak). I've deactivated Twitter, I don't post on Facebook other than as an admin for a social group, I've quit the music forum I used to post in. All of which because they were acting as...

https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/how-to-leave-porn-behind I find desiringgod really helpful in this regard. Lots of reasons to leave porn behind, and lots of alternatives.

Hi all Married British guy here in his late 30s. This is my third or fourth attempt at a reboot since joining this site. You can see my journal on the 30s forum but today marks 100 days clean. That's clean of P, MO, chat rooms and subs. It's not been easy: I felt horrendously low the first few...

Hiya. If you're sat there thinking "I want to give up porn," think of it this way. I'm a 38 year old man, and I wish I'd said no to porn when I was your age. But I didn't. Or more like, I said no, and then said yes again, and then said no, and yes, and no, and yes, and no, and yes... and in...

Right, day zero again. BACKGROUND: I'm a man in his late 30s, married, two children. I have struggled with porn and chat room addiction since my late teens. I got clean in June 2017 and went three months without anything. Had maybe two or three brief relapses and then a long relapse of about...

Hi all Given that there are quite a number of Christian recovering PAs on here, I wondered whether it might be worth collating useful articles / links for mutual support and encouragement. Obviously if you're not a Christian then you might still find these resources helpful, but I thought it...

Hi all. I'm a married guy with two children; I am a Christian. I joined up to this last autumn and managed nearly two months porn and chat-room free. Then my stepmum died and in the stress (and in the three nights in my dad's house away from my wife and kids) I relapsed. And I relapsed hard...

Hi all Firstly, can I just say that I wish I'd stumbled across this website years ago. It's amazing to see that there are literally thousands of other people battling with the same things I've battled with for years. I'm 37. I'm married with two children. I'm a Christian and I've been involved...