Blenderhead
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sound mind said:your overcoming no pun intended
is awesome to read your perseverance is outstanding
is it possible that your confidence has changed
well done sir take a bow
Thanks sir! I have really tried everything and been working out, doing yoga, eating healthy, going out to meet girls. Going to bed with several women, even knowing I would fail and I failed A LOT. But in the end the process really worked for me!
This night I just had the best sex! I lasted for 30 minutes or more. I had sex twice, and my dick was so hard it hurt. Today I feel like I could have sex again - but I will wait until tuesday, when my lady friend will come over.
Im really happy about being cured. It took me 3 years before the turning point came! Now the process is just accelerating quickly. Now I see big improvements in two areas: 1) I last much longer during sex - I can have sex without O'ing. Probably for an hour or more.I used to have premature ejaculation and would even orgasm with a totally soft dick 2) I have a shorter refractory period and my libido is back everyday. I love women and I love life. And I really love having a girlfriend again - although it's not that serious yet. But she is sleeping over a few times each week and loving the sex
Ps. I have not watched porn for more than 3,5 years now and I will never go back! I have not masturbated in more than a year, I can't really rememeber the last time. All of my orgasms have been with girls. And the hard mode was really the turning point for me! Without this hard mode period, my libido would never have come back, I think!
So my advise is still.
1) Stop watching porn
2) Stop masturbating if you don't have libido
3) Focus on health, work out and run (maybe supplement with horny goat weed tea and maca powder)
4) Don't do any edging
5) Rewire with sex and do not force any erections during sex. Don't touch yourself. Turn off the lights and just see if you can get erections from kissing and touching. Too much light during sex is just a mood killer
6) Don't expect too much from your dick, it's normal it goes soft and comes back again.
In my experience the process from total ED to being normal takes at least a year from hard mode. And in my case it took more than 3 years because I masturbated once per week. I went from total ED, no morning erections, no erections during sex, not being able to have sex at all to my current state. Now I can have sex 3 times in a night and after 1-2 weeks or less I am ready again. I keep my erections during sex in many different positions. After about 30 min I usually need a break and I lose my erection, but it will come back after a break. I think this is normal.
My libido is even stronger today than it was as a teenager! But this is because I kept my libido down by masturbating 1-3 times each day back then! If only I knew how dangerous porn is back then!
Also spend some time going out and talk to girls each week if you are single. This will increase libido gradually. Don't drink too much alcohol, because then you will probably just masturbate when you get back home. The most difficult thing about this proces is changing all those negative habits and thoughts that keep you down.