wow, its been a long time since I was here, and Ive had some ups and downs and actually looking back, realize that some things have changed and others have not.
I have gone through periods of upto 100 days free, and felt wonderful and have also just fallen back into old bad habits - as of today 25 Feb 2021, I am currently on a 4 day streak, and reflecting back on the past week, here are my thoughts:
Day 1: i woke up in the morning and watched a tiktok (one that I have been watching over and over again, and ended up masturbating, and feeling really low about it, I try do daily (religious) learning and just found that I could not focus, and felt so unclear, and decided there and then to do a gratitude diary which really "Woke me up" and literally decided that Ive had enough of this.
I've been feeling tired and sluggish, have not been eating well, have been watching crap and masturbating (sometimes once sometimes 3 times a day) the day went OK, and managed to get through the rest of the day well.
Day 2: No real urges to look at anything in particular, also did a short gratitude journal, but less focused than day 1.
Had a strange feeling during the day... I was having a conversation with someone and was trying to think of someone's name(that I should have known quite easily, though havent seen or connected with him in months, and couldn't not directly come up with his name - I had to "scan" my memory for association and then came to it, which has never really happened to me before - so a little worrying. The rest of the day went alright, though just experienced quite a lot of brain fog, and on one occasion was sitting talking to my son, and literally could not register what he was saying to me - I had to stop and force myself to concentrate as if the lights were on but no one was home - really got quite scared about that.
Day 3: started off OK, feeling a little anxious and couldn't quite describe about what exactly? the day went OK, no real urges or any desire to act out, but around 2PM started getting a real bad headache - my wife is pregnant and it was our first gynea visit to the new doctor - (long story) I had a client with an issue at the appointment so was a little distracted and stressed because they were whatsapping me, but said I was unavalable and would assist afterwards. Also had another one of those moments, where I couldn't find a word I was looking for, and need to really focus on some type of association - so will play close attention to that - I am concerned that it could be something serious- but also know that it might be a side effect of masturbation and maybe coming down - even though only 3 days.
Oh and I have this hypnotherapy on stopping porn that I listen to - I listened on Day 1 and Day, but missed day 3 - so should get back to it for day 4 tonight!
The headache got worse, so took paracetamol.
Today is day 4: so far so good - its a fast day, so woke up early to eat something and have a decaf coffee - also trying to cut out regular coffee as much as possible and see how that goes - haven't really decided on how long, but maybe for the next 2 weeks.
right now just before 8:06am and about to head to work, feeling OK, a little sluggish, but otherwise OK - I may not fast if I have a headache later, but will pop in later to update on how my day has gone.