Death Trap
Active Member
I think fantasizing is fine, but as with all things, don't overdo it (like, don't sit there and do it for an hour or something). And certainly don't fantasize about porn; fantasize about real girls/women.
By "working up an erection", I mean, touch yourself until you get hard, but don't have a good time doing it. It's an ironic phrase, but if you can do it, it does work. At any rate, since you don't need to get hard to do kegels, just do them regularly.
Now, when are you going back to Germany? Do you have a girl you can hook up with lined up? If you've been having erectile dysfunction with girls (in your teenage years...), I would advise you to stop edging/mastrubating at all--and then just wait until you can get with a girl.
By "working up an erection", I mean, touch yourself until you get hard, but don't have a good time doing it. It's an ironic phrase, but if you can do it, it does work. At any rate, since you don't need to get hard to do kegels, just do them regularly.
Now, when are you going back to Germany? Do you have a girl you can hook up with lined up? If you've been having erectile dysfunction with girls (in your teenage years...), I would advise you to stop edging/mastrubating at all--and then just wait until you can get with a girl.