day 1
I believe that's a good idea aquarius. I will be working on that list of ideal traits and goals for my life.
Today I woke up and opened a Bible I have. I happened to read a part called Ephesus or something like that. I didn't understand much but it seemed interesting. I think I will continue doing that. It seemed to kinda inspire me to live a good life.
As it is usaual on day 1, I pretty much hate porn right now. But I know in a few days or maybe even later, I can crave for that shit again and could fall off the wagon again.
I told my wife, she was pretty disappointed. I told her about this forum and that there is a space for wives as well. Let's see if she wants to do it.
I have so many reasons to "suck it up" and fight this thing, my wife, my kids, myself, my joy, my peace of mind; being able to drive around and not look at women like if they were just a pair of boobs (I hate that), being able to have a conversation with confidence without thinking in my mind that someone will mysteriously find out about my secret life of indulging in porn for hours; and so many more reasons.
I wish I could know exactly how many hours I've dedicated to porn. I think the number will come in days and days. Maybe even months! What a waste of time. SO much time dedicated to harming myself, my brain, my pleasure neuro-pathways. Shit!
I want to be able to make love to my wife without thinking about just sex and pleasure and all those nasty poses and moanings and pictures I've engraved in my brain during the years.
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Lately, I've been so focused on lactation fetishes because my wife is still breastfeeding our youngest, and I hate when I just want to press her breast like those videos I watch. I know she feels so uncomfortable and I hate myself for it.
This addiction has cost me far too much. I want to get over it. Since 1998, when a neighbor gave me a penthouse mag from February of 96 (still remember it as today) and I saw those pictures. I was just 14 years old. Until today, I have not stopped watching all this smut and shit. It needs to end. It's gone way too far. 19 years of Porn. It's enough. I hate it, I hate it, I hate it, I hate it. And I hate it even more because I love it so fucking much. I just can't believe this shit. I can't believe I love to eat this shit.
Sorry for the rambling, the triggers and the cursing, it's just that this thing is so damn frustrating.
Here goes to 19 years of porn free life! Let's keep up fighting guys.