brokensoul
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9 months into a new relationship with a guy who's history of strip clubs, hookers, porn, bar chicks etc. all physical contact has stopped. WTF?? He says he's stopped his porn use with a fleshlight and other male toys....had a half a gallon of personal lubricant. He has outright refused to touch me. No kissing, nothing. I can sleep next to him naked and try to initiate sex but nothing. He won't even look at me. But continues to insist I'm talking to other men, sneaking off with guys etc. He thinks every guy wants to screw me. I feel he's playing porn scenarios over in his head. He has repeated called me a slut and whore because I didn't answer my phone when he called etc. I think he's useless and has had such a history of using women that he doesn't appreciate a good one. All he knows is women for use. He thinks porn is fine and was using it every other day for over 20 years. I feel he's still using porn or he would want to have sex with me. He claims he has no libido since stopping steroid's but he's had no problem in the past when I was new to him. We started off having sex 4-5 times a day and he was all over me. When the relationship was about 5-6 months old everything stopped. He said he's not masturbating and was sick of my complaining. The only thing I complained about was lack of sex and his loss of interest in me. A guy that said sex & violence were his 2 favorite things now has no interest in sex but keeps me on the phone for hours afraid that Im having sex with someone else. I feel this is porn related, his behavior is bizarre. I feel like I'm dating my dad. What is going on with this guy? Has anyone else had this reaction from their significant other?