It?s way past time for a post, so here we go. First of all, I did just act out just now. A little bummed, but I feel empowered because I am starting to notice my patterns. Things that do not cause me to act out: YouTube and Facebook (which I just made a new account on). Although both of these can play a part in acting out, they are not bad in and of themselves, and it is me who decides to use these places to act out (I just acted out to erotic videos on YouTube).
Things that cause me to act out: boredom and not having a fixed structured schedule. I NEED a schedule to cling on to to get me through the day. Without one I can feel such symptoms as depression, loneliness, boredom. An unplanned day makes me desperate to get serotonin in my brain.
On good days when I don?t act out, I: have a fixed schedule that makes me feel productive, that leaves me time to have fun, but still gives me structure. [I just had a job interview yesterday that went really well. Waiting on a phone call for part time hours, so I should be very busy soon]. I look after myself with meditation, prayer, reading, and intellectually stimulating exercises. And I exercise.
I am feeling optimistic because even when I act out these days, I am disgusted by the material and not attracted to promiscuity the way I was in the ?glory days? of acting out. Promiscuity turns me off these days. That tells me all I need are a bit of discipline and doing the next right thing.
Thanks for listening.
Rich