10/17/2018
10:29 AM EST
Day 10
10 days in guys. Things I have noticed over the course of ten days at least for me:
1.) Emotions fluctuate
Especially in the last few days...Stress is a little more difficult to deal with. In the past I could use PMO to get a dopamine fix...but was still followed by feelings of depression and shame etc... I have had to find different and more healthy ways to deal with stress.
2.) Slight Increase in Energy levels--Easier to get out of bed/follow routines
I have noticed in the past few days that my energy levels are higher in the morning and throughout the day. It's easier to get out of bed...and as mentioned above I have had more energy to find other means to managing stress....Going to th Gym is a big part of that ( For me at least )
3.) Increased motivation/Optimism
Along with increased energy levels comes increased motivation. I have found that where in the past While stuck under the oppressive thumb of PMO, My motivation was not very high...I felt Depleted and lazy in the mornings and throughout the day but at night I would be wired. I have noticed that it is easier to go to bed at night, and easier to get up in the morning. I am more Motivated to follow a routine of healthy things ( Going to the gym, Meditation, Making food with my lady, ETC...
My lady and I got a little sexual last night...it almost happened but I could not get hard enough...Now I'm not sure if this is due to PMO related things or the fact that it was midnight and we both had to be up at 6am, or my nerves acting up...being insecure about this still...performance anxiety etc...She also confided in me that she wasn't there yet either. We had turned all the lights off...usually that means sleep time...But I had a feeling she was expecting me to make a move...So I did...But I like to see her in all of her beauty...So it's hard for me to do so in the dark...
The good thing though is...it did not end in frustration or any negative feelings at all. I still remain optimistic and we cuddled quite close and had a great morning making breakfast...
This is all I have to report for now, but it has been a wild 10 days and a learning experience for sure.
Also, for real this time...No drinking alcohol...or weed...I want to reset my Brain to all substances that may effect those areas.
Peace for now Guys and Gals.